sex
2006-06-18 10:28:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just say you had a lapse in judgement and wish to retract your statement. It's your right, whether you are male or female, to change your mind on a subject of this importance.
2006-06-18 10:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by PuterPrsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't ready and you want to wait a little longer... He should respect that, and if he doesn't you should leave that relationship completely... You have every right to change your mind, and just because you said you were ready once does not mean it applies to the future... If he tries to pressure you, walk away, he doesn't love you or care for you...
How old are you? you're probably too young for sex anyways... I'm 16 and I've never had sex because I learnt some self respect and I don't stick around a guy for very long if he doesn't respect me...
I'm sorta in a relationship with one of my friends, and he has so much respect for me, he always has, thats one reason I like him, he never makes the next move, he figures if I'm not ready to make the next move and go a little farther, I'm not ready for him to make it either... And he is totally right... I told him I was ready to have sex once, and I took that back a little bit later, he was totally okay with it, if he had pressured me, I would have left and never looked back...
It is okay to change your mind! And I'm glad you did!
2006-06-18 17:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I can tell you... just sit down and talk to them. I realize it can be tough, but you have to do what's right for you. Never rush into anything if you are unsure. Especially when it comes to sex (to many "complications" can arise from it if you are careless).
If they care about you they should understand. If they keep pushing or get really angry you need to reassess your relationship.
Even though you might really care about that person, if they do not respect your decisions then it may not be a good thing for you to continue on with them.
This can be a bit of a predicament, but you have to remember it is your body. You have a right to say what goes on with regards to it.
2006-06-18 17:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Liz L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly tell him that you made a mistake and you are NOT ready.
If your partner tries to make you feel guilty in any way, teases or manipulates, makes you seem like a liar or in any other way tries to get you to do something that you know is wrong for you, consider finding another partner.
When people care about us, they want what's best for us. And THAT is the kind of person we're going to want to have sex with, not someone who cares more about his own desires than our needs.
2006-06-18 17:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't old enough to properly write a question in English then you aren't ready for sex.
2006-06-18 17:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is because you could like to know the mood of your partner before getting into sex.
2006-06-18 17:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Moses E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest... NO mean NO.. He should care about your feelings and why he would want you to do something that you don`t want to do, is certainly NOT caring about YOUR feelings.. Sex MUST be wanted by BOTH parties.. It is called a relationship because it involves TWO people..
God bless & hugs from Texas. {:-)
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2006-06-18 17:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you have already got him happy right?
just tell him the truth but if he don't respect your decision just dump him and find you a good man
just tell him that you really not sure you want to have sex but if you really want to try it have protective sex!(use a birth control pill and a very good condom,)
2006-06-18 17:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you're sorry, but you are not ready yet
2006-06-18 17:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him ur not ready he will probably respect u more if u tell him how u feel
2006-06-18 18:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by little chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋