im pregnant?

Question

well, after my first question i feel pretty bad...
cause that happend 3 months ago and yesterday i found out that im pregnant. what should i do?

Answer 1

If you want the baby make it work. If you don't start talking about adoption. There are some really great adoption agencies out there and the child would have a better shot since he/she is a baby.

Answer 2

If you a teenager, asking random people on the internet is probably not the best thing for you to be doing. You're going to have a lot of people tell you to not get an abortion or to get an abortion or that you made a mistake or it's God's will. The thing is, these people are not your parents.

This is probably one of the hardest things you'll go through, but you won't be in trouble with your parents and you aren't going to die from embarassment. You're human. This stuff happens.

But if you are three months pregnant, you need to do something to help yourself and the baby. Start with telling your folks. Or maybe have your sister or brother help you. You'll be just fine.

Answer 3

You have three choices: Raising the Child,Abortion,Adoption. Figure out which choice is right for you. Talk to someone you trust, a friend, parent. Make sure you have someone in your corner to support your decision whatever it may be. Make sure the choice you make is the choice that YOU FEEL is best for you. Do not let anyone persuade you, if you are underage remember. You parents have no legal authority to tell you what to do, they cannot make you adopt out of abort if you wish not too. If you chose to abort you may need consent from one parent to you may need to notify one parent. In the meantime, take care of yourself. Stay away from raw fish, lunch meat, drugs, alchol, ciggarettes, get lots of sleep and take prenatal vitamins(you can buy them at wal mart). Good luck :)

Answer 4

you'll need to get medical care because it will be best for your health and the baby's. This is probably much easier to do with your mom's help. My parents were angry with my brother when he got his girlfriend pregnant, but it was worth telling them and getting through that hard patch right away. Honestly, you're going to show soon so talk to her and get it out of the way. You'll need her support over the next few years!

Answer 5

well i think u should set down and talk to ur parents about it.there r choices abortion is not in that choice but if u r not ready to have a baby i would choose adoption.remember the child did not ask to be conceived and as soon as the sperm hits the egg it is a living thing so just sit and talk to ur parents then make the decision on what u need or want to do.

Answer 6

you're sooo young. figure out what is best for you... having the baby, adoption, abortion...

if i was you, i would live with the consequences. learn and accept the responsibilities of your actions... if you didnt want to get pregnant, you would of used protection. in this time, and age... there are sooo many choices...

i dont agree with abortion in your case, you were out having sex, and its not like you've never heard of a condom before, or birth control. you made your choice. now do whats right. women who use abortions as a form of birth control should have their vagina stapled shut.

good luck.

Answer 7

Tell the guy that u think or know is that dad.. Then even know it might be hard u got to tell a parent.. Telling your mom would be better.. Tell your mom first she is most likely not to get mad that easy unlike dads unless you are close to your dad...

Answer 8

You need to talk to someone like a parent or trusted adult to help you make a decision on what to do about your pregnancy.

Answer 9

Talk to your mother. I know it's scary but only she can help you. She WILL be mad at first but you are her first concern. I would want my daughter to come to me instead of suffering alone!

Answer 10

i believe that you should have the baby. children are a blessing from God. you will not regret it. do not feel bad. the pregnancy was in the plans. not your plan but God's plan.