This girl I'm seeing has a boyfriend but she has been fooling around with me. We kiss, touch each others private parts outside of clothes and every thing.She always tells me how good it feels in my arms. She even allowed me 2 suck her breast a couple times but whenever I ask for sex or attempt to touch inside her panties she says she feels guilty and does'nt want to cheat on her boyfriend. She seems sincere and I've been patent for 3 months now.....Am I just wasting me time because I really like her....she is 25 , I am 35
2006-06-18 08:39:06 · 6 answers · asked by stiff_nhard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Personally it sounds like she's playing a game with your emotions - she has a boyfriend and she has you - if she felt so guilty about the things you do together - then she wouldn't be doing them - she's already cheating on him - I think she's just wasting your time - sounds like she's using you
2006-06-18 08:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by kaije03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all if she has a b/f then yes u have been wasting u'r time...why r u even with a commited girl...are u hoping that she will leave her b/f for u and so far she hasn't done that so wat r u going to do?
U've been patient for 3 months and u say u really like her but yet u'r asking if u're wasting u'r time...wat r u waiting for just the sex alone...wat if she never have's sex with u..will u then move on?
I don't mean to offend u but u've already wasted 3 months of u'r life especially when u have a girl that keeps telling u that she doesn't want to cheat on her guy...move on..find someone who u could have a possible relationship with cuz right now all u are to her is a "good time".
2006-06-18 08:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by bigflirt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have much more important problems to be thinking about right now. For starters, once you hook up, there's no turning back - it's a permanent change in the relationship.(1)
Think about it: if it's going to be irreversible like that, does it make sense to be setting foot on that path if you don't have a lifetime commitment in hand?
And the fact that she is messing around with you behind her bf's back now does not bode well for later, when she might well start messing around behind your back if you do eventually get together.
My take on this: treat yourself, her and her bf (not to mention God) with respect and get out while you're ahead!
God bless
2006-06-18 08:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's already cheating on her boyfriend and you too. Wake up, this is going nowhere.
2006-06-18 08:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one you are to old for her and two you should be ashamed of your self for trying to break up her relationship. if you were meant to be together then it wont work with this guy whether you break them up or not i pitty da fool
2006-06-18 08:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes a virgin and afraid and hmm maybe she doesnt have a bf.
2006-06-18 11:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋