2006-06-18 08:00:25 · 35 answers · asked by sharp gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say that it depends on the sort of trust you had between you before it happened. Did you always feel totally secure? Is it the first time? Does he seem genuinely remorseful? I don't agree with the statement "Once a cheater, always a cheater" and this is through personal experience. I do believe that making such a mistake and then realising what one had in the first place, can definitely change a person. So if your relationship was really good before and you felt like you were soul mates then maybe it would be worth another go. Just my thoughts......
Good luck whatever you decide!
2006-06-18 08:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Definaetly not. My sister was in a relationship for 3 years during which the guy cheated on her more than once. It brought down her self esteem to the point where she always thought she was too fat, ugly, etc (even though she is very athletic and beautiful). Not to mention the constant paranoia about what he was doing when she wasn't with him. It hurt to see her being put through that because she used to be so confident and happy before it happened. They constantly fought.
There is no excuse for cheating. I recommend finding someone who will treat you like you are the only woman in the world. Everyone deserves that.
2006-06-18 08:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by nf152 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your boyfriend cheated on you , the old saying is if he can do it once he can do it again , the more he does it the better he gets and the less you will know . And if he has to cheat he must not be content with your relationship ,so why would you want a boyfriend who seems to have to go else where to find his contentment.
2006-06-18 08:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll114@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you misery really loves company. Like i told another female any chick who'll tell you a definite answer is miserable and she wants you to join. She doesn't know your personal situation. never give up on love mami but dont play the fool nether. Evaluate the situation did you spend more time smiling or crying? Do you love him enough?Does he love you equally? Make him earn your trust regardless of what you do even if your gotto start off friends again? Some of these chicks re some hating *** bitches yes i said it bitches cause there just like dogs they don't want to see no one happy good luck just think about it do u have more to lose or gain take care Vote on that one LOL
2006-06-18 08:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way i think that some cheats on you, you should never take them back they Will only hurt you again. i cant believe a person really loves another if they cheat,it shows that they could risk every thing even losing the person there with and they still do it!!
2006-06-18 08:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by Karey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u take ur boyfriend back he's going to see that u make sure that u take him back when he cheats on you again one he observes u that u keep taking him back then that's what he'll do u might as well accept the other women in your bed with u and him cause that how is going to feel like you are tasting what these women have .
2006-06-18 08:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by carmen.rosario35@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO! Once a cheater always a cheater, he'll just find better ways to get away with it. Plus, if you do take him back, it will constantly be in the back of your head and you will remain stagnant and never be able to grow together. Move on sugar, you deserve way better!
2006-06-18 08:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are not thinking if you take your b/f back, because statistics have shown that they do it again. I don't think you want to be hurt again, do you? And a relationship without trust is not a relationship.. I think you should tell him no, just let him go... I am sure that you are a beautiful woman that deserves a man that is going to love you and only be with you... But you need to look inside your heart and make that decision...
2006-06-18 08:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by herbihan1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't think he will cheat on him again and you still like him you should take him back, but if he would cheat on you again you know that he doesn't want you so break up with him
2006-06-18 08:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Once a cheater always a cheater!
He'll see you as a weakling who puts up with his crap if you take him back.
Civilize him by kicking him to the curb!
2006-06-18 08:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Chrissy V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋