i love my girlfriend. I have never cheated on anyone before(if this is considered cheating)... last night a girl threw herself at me... we didnt have sex but we did kiss a little and cuddled... i want to tell her but i dont want to lose her... we only kissed a few times... but thats not the issue... should i tell her that she kissed me or just let it be... nothing really happened... we didnt have sex so it isnt really cheating...right... i dont know... i just dont want to lose her... i love her so much... and i dont want to hert her... even though i probly already have... any sudgestions
2006-06-18 07:57:10 · 6 answers · asked by little dazed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Kissing and cuddling is cheating you big dummy. Face the charges and grovel.
2006-06-18 08:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mache 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me kissing is cheating, but my bf did something of a similar nature and i forgave him for it. The most important thing is how YOU feel about kissing another girl. Ask yourself if it was something that at the time you enjoyed and was a willing participant because if you did then you really dont love the girlfriend you have, when these things happen it shows that there may be bigger issues between you and your partner
2006-06-18 15:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Northern Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were drunk of something last night, then forgive yourself and forget what happened last night. I don't think it should be a big issue... Unless it really bothers you and you're a very honest guy.
Do you think your girlfriend would understand?
If I'm you, I wouldn't bother telling as long as my conscience is clear that I do not have any feelings for this girl and that it'll never happen again.
2006-06-18 15:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not tell her. It's ok to make mistakes (it was only a kiss) but if you do it again, i suggest breaking up with her because obviously you do not love her.
2006-06-18 15:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Still Halloween 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ask forgiveness at the expense of another.
Why hurt her?
Let it go.
If you're as serious as you sound, then you won't let it happen again.
2006-06-18 15:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Spencer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything . You have learnt your lesson don't' make it her lesson too. It won't happen again.
2006-06-18 15:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by pms247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋