Some people are just soo unhappy in there lives and they take it out on other people at work, Really they shouldnt, I work for a firm were there is a bunch of men around,k and for example i cant stand this one girl always confessing to me about P.M.S. She is never happy, How can I make her realize its getting me down every time she tells me
2006-06-18 07:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by trudycaulfield 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You can't people like that just have to be unhappy...they get off on it......she was obviously raised by a female who used PMS for an excuse for every little bad thing in her life and it is now so ingrained you will never change it. Just say that's nice and walk away.....Or if you are well liked at work and can get away with it hand her a bottle of Pamprin and walk away.
2006-06-18 09:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by SAMANTHA B 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you don't want people telling you about things don't give them the chance. In other words use your body language/ and tell them directly that you are not interested in listening to their problems.
As far as why some people cant be happy, peoples goals are different so although someone may seem to you to have it pretty good, they may feel that they still have not achieved their goals because their view of success is most likely different than yours.
2006-06-18 08:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by korn_issues_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some ppl that r unhappy just want ppl to feel sorry for them.i think u should give her some advice on how to make it thru her pms days and give her some positive suggestions on what she can do.if that doent work just tell her to cheer up and explain to her that it brings u down when she comes to u when she has pms that u want to help but if everything u do never helps then y does she come to u.
2006-06-18 08:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by sweetlady38237 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, what they said above!
you may want to add that things can 'always' be worse and that she could be livin on the streets etc... you know, preach to her (get under her skin too hehe)
Sorry. Basically, tell her to pull her head in, take control of her life/self and stop trying to take comfort in the fact she gets others to listen and sympathize with her etc...
2006-06-18 08:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Chiron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humans are selfish brats that want everything they are convinced it should be which is how they see it in their mind most people yell and such becasue they are craving for attention and want people to feel bad for them becasue it makes them feel better when they are noticed or their mind is addicted to the feeling they get from drama
2006-06-18 08:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for them.
Tell that girl to pray on it. If she keeps talking
about depressing things, tell her she's bringing
them to herself by talking about it.
Misery loves company. Don't let her do that to you.
2006-06-18 08:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. negative people always tend to wanna bring people around them down without realizing it. They victimize themselves and want people to pity them.
Just tell her to stop victimizing herself...and that you don't want any of her negativity.
2006-06-18 10:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get extroverted @ tell her she might have Premenstrual disphoric Disorder @ Quit running at the mouth
2006-06-18 08:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by hymie9zztt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you be honest and straightforward with her? You'd never be happy when you don't get over what gets into your skin.
2006-06-18 08:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sicko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her it like it is- "i don't want to here about your depressing stories because it gets me depressed too."
2006-06-18 08:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jill 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋