im away visiting my family and in a month my BF is going to come up here to join me. i want to give him a "i missed you" gift when we have some privacy, but i dont know what to give him.
2006-06-18 07:52:36 · 2 answers · asked by christine m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
shhhh.... this is the answer to "do you think I'm hot". Man I'm clever.
Yes. You are a friggin' hottie. Tiger is cute as heck too. Your boyfreind is a big uggo, but you know, i'm a guy, so don't take my word on that one. I am pretty mad at him, though. That is such crap that he would say that nobody else would date you. Eventually you will learn that A-H's say things like that to keep you working for their approval. They make you feel so bad about yourself that you feel deeply indebted to them for dating you. You should ONLY date people, or be around people for that matter, that make you feel great about yourself! I can see you're a little dorky. That's fine. I'm a HUGE dork. Things like that seem so important when you're 16. Even IF you're not popular in highschool, I gaurentee that when you get to college, TONS of guys will be ALL over you. That is IF that punk hasn't ruined your self esteem by then.
The bigger problem is that I can clearly see that you identify yourself through him. You love him so much, that you can't even imagine what it'd be like without him! That is not right. You are 16 and your excited to have feelings for someone, and these feelings are new to you, but you're not in love yet, and I would bet my entire income last year that you will not end up marrying him. During your teens you should focus on learning who you are and who you want to be. Date, be romantic, but don't invest so much of your emotions into someone yet. You're setting yourself up for huge disappointment.
I'm not saying you're being stupid. Well, I am. But it's only due to inexperience. There's not really a handbook about life. I'm speaking from experience. Every teen, including myself, falls in love with their first boy/girlfreind, and then realize they're stupid and they break up, or get dumped, and it hurts bad. The lesson there is to not invest so much of your emotions into someone so quickly.
The main thing is that he is a jerk. No respectable gentleman would ever EVER say "nobody else would want to date you." God, taht's horrible! I wouldn't say that to people I dislike! That's JUST MEAN! He's got a reason, though, to say that. That reason is to keep you indebted to him. Understand? Don't give him the pleasure. If you want to stay with him, fine, but don't let him make you feel bad about yourself, and certainly don't identify yourself through him. You are you, and he should only compliment you, so that if he leaves, you're still you. Still, though, you should dump his *** and prove him wrong. It's easy to flirt on some guys in highschool and get a date in no time. just make sure it's someone that makes you feel good about yourself.
If you want more details or more help or whatever, brianman3@yahoo.com
2006-06-21 17:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Brianman3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the perfect gift is a hug which will show ur love and he will really enjoy it trust me
2006-06-18 15:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by yuyu o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋