how do i tell my friend that i like him but the only thing is that he has a girlfriend wot should i do?

Answer 1

Don't brake into his relationship with her, when they break up then talk to him, but remember what goes around comes around.
Take Care

Answer 2

First off you do not owe his girl friend anything. No-one has exclusive "rights" over another person's heart, that heart makes it's own choices.

As long as your intention is sincere and you do not do anything underhand to try and wreck their relationship then you have every right to let him know how you feel.

However, your worry is that you reveal your feelings and he will reject you. You should be able to determine whether his feelings are reciprocated by the way he treats you, and, if you are in his confidence, what he says about his relationship.

If he has tolds you that he loves his girlfriend - chances are you he does not fancy you, so revealing your feelings will only embarass you

If he frequently complaigns about her or expresses reservations then he could be doing this because he is interested in you, but it could be that you are just a confident. In this case, next time he complaigns about the relationship ask him "is part of the problem that you are interested in someone else?" and see how he reacts.

Good luck

Answer 3

You don't! Child. Life is short and I bet you there is someone very special out there just for you. You don't want to give yourself a bad rep. Imagine yourself in the gf shoes if someone breaks up with u. Its not really worth it gal. What would be would be. If he is the one he would come to you eventually.

A friend of mine used to say that you should set the one you love free and if they belong with you the one you love comes back to you of its own accord.

I'm in a similar situation actually I fancy a guy who has a gf already. The thing is I value the friendship between us so much that I would not jeopardise it. Having a male friend { no sex involved} it the greatest thing to me personal. U get all the gossip and dirt of what goes via the male mind without being mired lol what fun!!!

Answer 4

Think about how you really feel. do you like him enough to risk messing you current relationship with him up. i think you should give yourself some space, don't see him for a while and then if you still feel the same way then tell him. but be aware that it could turn out badly for you or for him and you may lose him as a friend

Answer 5

Leave well alone!

You always want what you can't have im afraid & you don't want to lose his friendship altogether do you?

Theres plenty more fish in the sea - so get fishing and get the idea of you and him out of your head!

I always put myself in the other girls shoes, think seriously how you'd feel if you were seeing someone and his female friend turned round and said she wanted him! You wouldn't like it would you! Good luck with the fishing

Answer 6

Please dont do this your heading for heartbreak, and its kind of a shitty thing to do too!

Think of the other girl shes got feelings too. At the end of the day if its meant to be you'll get him in the end, just be there for him as a mate.

Answer 7

if you have a friend and you have a love affair
you're in trouble, of loosing a friend. If you have any respect for yourself and your friend you should be honest with him/her. But above all be honest with yourself. Are you finding him/her more attractive because he/her is unavailable? It's human nature to want what you can't have.

Answer 8

If you were your friend's gf how would you feel about someone else coming into your relationship?

Answer 9

You leave him alone and do not ruin his gf's life.

Have some self-respect for God's Sake

Answer 10

prove dat u like him by not breakin up his relationship.dont let ur feelings carry u away just let him be since he's wit someone else.