I have a wonderful committed relationship with a guy I absolutely love and will be getting married to next year. He's sheer magic in bed and I'm the selfish one. I'ne not got around to giving him a 'u know what' yet. I can't deal with the strong smell somehow and the stickiness. I prefer him going at me instead of vice versa. But I know I have to simply because I love him and want to satisfy him in every way. How can I make things better? How can I ignore the smell and do a better...job? Please help me!
2006-06-18 07:20:37 · 21 answers · asked by Dumbchick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take a shower together so you know he is clean and then try. You can also let him know that you don't like the sticky and to let you know before that happens. There are many other ways you can help him get off with out having your face in it.
2006-06-18 07:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never mind that the gurls wont answer and there's really nofing to be embarrased about...tis sumfing we'll do or will all have to do l8r on. the earlier you get used to it, the better. think of it this way, since you get to do it wiv only one person, then it's really ok...n u love him (dat says it all). besides, he does it for you. It took a long time for mi to do it the first time, but after that and the next...and the next, it dint really take any convincing...coz, like u, I used 2 fink that 'u no wat' smells n gurls urinate tru der n...stuff like dat. I fink its a part of responsibility, it doesnt always com in pleasurable forms, but it's always an essential part of lasting happiness.
2006-06-18 07:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Concoction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off in the shower. It's a nice and different place to have fun.
Also, ask him to let you know before things go too far. I wasn't too keen of it either mostly because I didn't want to go to the point of no return. So now, I just do it to get us started and before it goes too far, we move on to something else.
2006-06-18 07:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really not normal for guys to have a really strong smell for no reason if your sure that his clean and he doesnt have anything then just be honest with him .tell him that he doesnt smell that fresh down there and if he can go wash up first .i think he'll be soo happy that your about to go down on him that he wont mind washing up.if the smell is still there after he cleans himself then mayb you guys should go see a dr
2006-06-18 07:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only do it in the shower...lol seriously! Lather each other up, rinse each other off and go for the goal! That way...ok, it's not EVERYTIME you guys get intimate...but all those other issues you have go down the drain...literally. And he's not deprived the pleasure.
2006-06-18 07:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Passionate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest taking a shower together first. Makes for gooooood foreplay.
2006-06-18 07:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by DrDave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel... i used to swear i would never ever do that... but i think its totally fine now. about the strong smell... get him to wash it first. and about the taste... eat something or drink alcohol beforehand so you dont taste it as much. or you could cover it in chocolate spread or whipped cream :) lol.
2006-06-18 07:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to do other things that will give him plesure. Explain to him why you dislike it and trust in your relationship that he will understand. Think of it as candy that you can't eat, savour the taste.wink, wink!
2006-06-18 07:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Giovanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be what he is eating or you might want to talk with a doctor and make sure there is nothing wrong or you can try taking a shower together
2006-06-18 07:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by crazi8red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt smell thats weird.
2006-06-18 07:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by sunkissedhunny24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋