My significant other is a wonderful person basically i am waited on hand and foot. Yet sometimes it does get to be too much. Since im pregnant i can understand but even before it was the attitude that he wanted me to do nothing. He would do everything should i consider myself lucky?
2006-06-18 06:50:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't call it luck. Life is fair and you get what you deserve. You get what get because you deserve it, even if you don't think so, not because you are lucky.
2006-06-18 07:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by VOOOP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are lucky, so stop bragging.... lol, I was just kidding. Anyhow, you should feel lucky, but at the same time talk to him and let him know that you feel that it isn't necessary to wait on you hand and foot. I was getting done the same way, and just express your appreciation, but let him know at times it feels like a bit to much. I think he'll understand, good luck on this and the baby.
2006-06-18 13:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by spoiled_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, imagine if he was the opposite and did nothing for you. Imagine you're pregnant and he made you do everything. How would you feel then? I rather have someone that is always waiting on me hand and foot than someone who is a deadbeat abd never does anything for me.
2006-06-18 13:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by ohnoslen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider that being lucky. Being lucky is the ability to walk, talk, function on a normal basis, carry a child to term and deliver a healthy baby, etc. Those are things that people long for when they can't do it and we take for granted.
If you don't like your man doing that, just tell him that you want to do for yourself. He should understand.
2006-06-18 13:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You have a person who is doing thier absolute best to make you feel wanted and loved. It is rare that someone will go to this extent. Count yourself as lucky.
2006-06-18 13:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should! Ask women around you about the selfish blokes they're dating...Besides if it pisses you off to be treated like precious china,just tell him you don't need that much attention but trust me,you're lucky and too much is better than too little...
2006-06-18 13:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you wait until you are not pregnant to make a think about this.
2006-06-18 13:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by aphromac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider yourself spoiled, if you dont like it just tell him.
2006-06-18 13:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.............. and no. He needs to give you your space also. Good luck.
2006-06-18 13:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U WANT
2006-06-18 13:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋