how do you tell someone that you hate them?

Question

i have a friend whos really not my friend but i don't knowhow to tell HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

Answer 1

I have been in that situation before. The best way to deal with it is to slowly cut off contact with her and drop hints off. If she is smart she will get it.

If she isn't smart then just take her aside and say I don't think we should hang out anymore. And just make a clean getway. Don't be mean, but you don't have to sugarcoat it either.

The final option is to reasses her so you don't hate her as much or try to change her so she isn't so annoying to you.

Any of these options work, good luck!

Answer 2

A) Ignore her, maybe she'll get the picture.
B) Pawn her off on someone else you don't like
C) Hook her up with some single guy you know, but who is not one of your close buds
D) Tell her you are gay and really, really, really into her. (Make absolutely freakin' sure she would be very uncomfortable with that)
E) Tell her you have got a lot going on and you may not be able to hang out for a while, but you'll call her as soon as you have some free time just to chill or go out or whatever....don't call.

Answer 3

Hate is such a strong emotion. Booker T Washington once said "Let know man pull you so low as to make you hate him".

WIth that said, when you are associated with a person that you don't care for, simply tell that person that you think you have out grown them.

I had a "friend" of 32 years, only to find out she didn't trust me. At that point I told her that it makes me question the validity of our friendship. It is my feeling you can't be friends with someone you don't trust and/or they don't trust you.

I haven't talked to your in three years! Handle your business.

Answer 4

well, first of all, hate is a very big and powerful word. if you dont like someone, you should be honest and tell them what bothers you about them. pretending to be their friend makes you a hipocrit.

if you dont want her to be your friend let her know. let her know what she did that bothers you. maybe you are just mad at something she might have done or said. if she cares enough. she will try to work on those problems, if not, maybe she'll leave you alone.

Answer 5

Never tell anybody that you hate them, if you really can not
stand a person or you detest that person so much, the answer
is simple, Have Nothing to do with them. After all, would "You"
want to associate with a person that hated you?

Answer 6

you don't tell someone you hate them.. that is just wrong. If she is not your friend, then distance yourself from her. If she asks why, you tell her that you don't feel the two of you have much in common anymore, and you feel you must have some space now. Good luck.

Answer 7

Tell her that you are a immature brat and she is stealing the attention that belongs to you.And if she cant ugly herself up some you wont be friends anymore

Answer 8

since you already "pretended" to be her "friend.
then whats wrong?
to tell her: try politely say: im sorry but i cant be friends with someone that--------(fill in with something that she has actually done or say). sorry but I thought I would be truthful instead of lying to you.
this would very hard for myself to say to someone but you asked this question.
very hard one to answer or to tell you what I would do in this circumstance.
actually, I would probably : in all honesty: not talk to her ever again. would actually ignore her from now on. sorry if this dont help.

Answer 9

First of all, You're not suppose to "hate" anyone!
If she's not your friend,and you don't want to have anything to do with her,don't!
Don't ever tell anyone you hate them! Remember.............
Once words are spoken--they can't be taken back!

Answer 10

Hate is a very strong word to use when you claim this person is your friend.

Maybe you should just quit being friends and leave it at that!