There is no ONE right person for you.
Potentially you could be happy with any one, it's just a question of focusing on their uniqueness.
However, when we're attracted to someone, we start thinking about them and they take on more and more importance.
Eventually we believe that they are the only person we could be happy with.
If we get with that person, they'll inevitably do things that irritate us and we start questioning whether they are right.
However when you are not with someone, or they are less committed than you, we don't have these doubts. So the longer it lasts the more and more convinced we are that this person is the only one who can makes us feel "whole" or "happy"
Loving someone who does not return the love is agony. If you find yourself in this position all you can do is distract yourself and try and find the fun in life regardless. The other person may grow to love you and, if not, someone else will.
List the qualities you that make you love the person and try to be those things yourself. Without doubt this person is not someone who is sitting in obsessing about someone they can not have - they will be out and about, actually living their life. You must do the same.
Good luck
2006-06-18 07:46:39
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answered by del-d 2
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There's a point where you just know, you're heart will get a little or a big pain. I'm sorry that nothing can ever happen, I know that feeling. there's a boy i'm in love with but he doesn't think he could ever be more than just a friend. But you can't help who you love, and even if the right person, to be honest I believe that there's more than one right person out there for you, you just got to keep your eyes open.
2006-06-18 13:28:30
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answered by Carrie P 3
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to know if the person is the right one or not is really based on how you get along and how long have you been with this person. Also I believe in astrology and look up my sign and the other persons sign to see if there is any compatiability. If you really have nothing in common than no he's not the right one. I, myself, wonder sometimes to when I'm with that person, but I just let destiny take its fate. If I'm destined to be with him, it'll happen, if not, there are more men out there to catch and reel in with our charms
2006-06-18 13:23:23
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answered by jodester 3
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You don't really, but I think its right when no matter how bad you are feeling the person can make you smile!
But if you nothing is going to happen then may you shouldn't be asking this question?
2006-06-18 13:27:55
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answered by donna141281 1
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I'm guessing that this person is with someone else??
you think this person is the one because you see how they treat their partner and wish it was you?? am i right?
if i am stay away it wouldn't be the same with you, if you break a relationship it could never be the same and you'll be left alone wishing you'd never started it in the first place.
if I'm wrong I'm sorry, I'm not being judgemental just trying to help.
2006-07-01 07:50:04
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answered by tuppassister 4
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does your heart flutter when you look deep into each others eyes and do you get goose bumps all over you body,if so you will know you have found the right one,but you can never no what fate has in store for you,its up to you to take the right path good luck
2006-07-02 06:19:29
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answered by theblackwitch 5
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if nothing is going to happen between you and him give up now before you get into deep
2006-06-18 13:21:40
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answered by Anonymous
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When you miss your bus....and it starts pouring rain...
and you take shelter in a bar 'cause you heard music coming from it..and you sit with rain droplets pourin from your face...and the music beats to the rhythem of the heart of your lover to be...as your eyes meet his through droplets falling in harmony...20 years later ask the same question
2006-07-01 18:25:47
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answered by El Mariachi 4
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if you know nothing will happen ..he is not the right one
2006-07-02 03:32:32
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answered by GRUMPY /UK 5
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The answer ive always found to this one is u just know...i know not very hepfull!?to me it is when the person is able to raise my spirits when am low,help me up when am down,cares enough to put me before themselves,butt is also quick to correct me when am messing up.......well thats me.
2006-06-18 13:20:18
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answered by daniel b 1
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