My ex boyfriend is in a relaitonship with a girl who has lied to him constantly and she has cheated. Everyone knows she is a cheat but him. She's sneaky and lazy. He won't accept who she is. He won't believe anything bad anyone tells him about her. They just got married like two weeks ago. He doen't really know her even though they have been together for almost 4 year. She has even told him lies about me to make him not want to talk to me or hang around me. He thinks I'm the crazy one in the situation. She has a way to make people believe whatever she says. I know the truth about everthing going on but that is not good enough for me. I want HIM to know and accept it. I tried telling him but that's how she flipped the wrong doings on me and told him I was trying to break them up. I don't want to accpet them being together because I feel like it won't last. When you marry someone you find out things about them you didn't want to. I feel like i'm waiting to be second best & I know better.
2006-06-18 05:18:22 · 7 answers · asked by LJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let him learn his own lessons.
2006-06-18 05:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, You have got to MOVE ON. You ARE trying to break them up. You may not realize it, but you want him to see his wife the way you see her & then he'll leave, & you'll be waiting there for the leftovers. Sound romantic or worthwile? NO !!!
Get over it, the guy moved on. If you keep dwelling on this then your just expending your time, emotions & energy on something that is going to destroy you. All those feelings you have about who she is, is who you are becoming by stooping down to the level that your at right now. Go have a spa day with some girlfriends, go shopping, and get your head screwed on straight. Your better than this. Besides, the more time you concentrate on how unhappy he's making you, the less time you have to find someone who can truely make you happy.
2006-06-18 12:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by pritigrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I went through that some thing with one of his best friends. All we could do is let him find out for himself. It really sucks to let your friend go through so much pain but when someone is that blinded then there is nothing you can do. Now because of that girl, my husband has lost a best friend. He finally found out and got a divorce from her, but things are not the same with my husband and his friend. His friend his distant from us now.Good Luck. Just be there for your friend if he needs you .
2006-06-18 12:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has made his choice and nobody is going to change his mind. He is just going to have to find this one out for himself. You need to move on with your life and take care of you.
2006-06-18 12:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by MJL613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually the truth will show itself. He will either ignore it and turn the other cheek or wake up and do something about it
2006-06-18 12:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Guy Smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting way too much energy on your ex. He's you EX...he's married....let him be and learn his lessons on his own terms. Move on!
2006-06-18 13:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED NEW FREINDS....DITCH THE DRAMA AND BUTT OUT
2006-06-18 12:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by JO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋