How can I make the loved one let her love me. pls help?

Question

We were a perfect couple and love each other, and she was intending to marry me but, after few month she has changed 180 degree total from her side, and I still love her. would any body advice me what to do, should I try to make her love, but how? or should I let her go, but this will be very painful for me. Thank you

Answer 1

really cant answer that without knowing what went on to make her disinterested. May be you should start with finding that out- once you realize what made her leave you, you may find out how to fix that and act in a way that she likes again

Answer 2

I know it hurts, but you have to let her go. You will be hurt more later if this keeps up. If she really loves you, she will be back. Just do not sit around and wait for her. If she see's that you are not playing games anymore, it might wake her up. This is coming from experience. My husband and I did this for six years befor we got married. He was the one always playing games with me. I think he was scared . No one ever loved him the way I did. When he realized that he could loose me forever, it woke him up. Now we have been together for a total of 15 years, and married for 9.If it is meant to be then it will . If not , cut the ties now, so you can find that someone who will love you too. Good Luck . Best Wishes.

Answer 3

Have a talk with her. Find out what happened. Find out from her why she did a turn around. If you cannot do anything to change her mind, then the best thing to do is let go of her and move on, but if you can do the things that you know made her love you in the first place

Answer 4

I, personally, would not want anyone I had to beg to get. She changed her mind for a reason. Ask her to please tell you why so you can have closure or, if this is not possible, you will have to just move on. If she gives you a reason, thank her for it, do not try to overcome it, just thank her and think about it for a day or so and evaluate if you need to change or if you just were not compatible with her. You need to be true to yourself, no matter what, do not change to get her. If the reason was only a misunderstanding, perhaps things can work out, but people don't usually break engagements unless they have realized they could never live the lifestyle they would have to live if they went through with it. Good Luck.

Answer 5

just let her know where you stand. Do you have an open communation relationship? Maybe she is freakin' out a little at how serious the relationship is. Let her know how you feel and give her room to think, tone down the talk about marriage, let her get comfortable with where the relationship is now, and let her know it's still cool for her to do her own thing when she wants.

Answer 6

It seams as though there is something in the relationship that had a dramatic change. If she is unwilling to tell you what went wrong or how to fix it then it's not worth your time or extended pain. Move on it will hurt for less time. Show her that you are the best for her by moving on and not dwelling. Show her that you r somebody no matter what.

Answer 7

well you cannot make anyone love you, the more you try to make her love you, will just make her not want to love you, so stand back, just let her know how you feel and leave it at that. I know it is painful but it is the truth,

Answer 8

You can't make someone love you !! If this person left, then they have unresolved issues in their head not yours. Chalk this up to a learning experience. You may not believe this now, but if you just get out & go do something, your gonna meet your Ms. Right.

Answer 9

If she couldn't make up her own mind about you and had to have the family make the decision for her, then she's not worth having around. You're better off without her kind!

Answer 10

Things happen for reasons. U can not MAKE anybody love u. Probably something better is waiting for u!