her older sister , there coming to stay the nite and ive booked a hotel so i dont see her sister and dont want ny gf to look at me and find out some way that i find her sis attractive I LOVE MY GF. Do you think i should be talking to the sister by now because im shy from her....
2006-06-18 04:47:56 · 12 answers · asked by loverboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if its an innocent crush, dont worry. just DONT ACT ON IT. just talk to her (not excessively) and try to be normal.
2006-06-18 04:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by n0wuseeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds more like an infatuation than just a little innocent crush. If you really love your girlfriend the way you say you do, then staying under the same roof shouldn't be a problem. I would go talk to a counselor to get these feelings squared away. You could end up getting married & divorced if you don't.
2006-06-18 05:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by pritigrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand the situation. You have a crush on your girlfriend's sister but you love your girlfriend? Guys will be guys. It's normal for you to find another girl hot. Or maybe it's just a crush you have on her sister. Anyway if you love her there's nothing to worry about. Be careful. Don't mess up things just because you have a little thing about her sister. What's important is that you love your girlfriend, and that maybe you and her sister are better off friends.
2006-06-18 04:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by QQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me drop this on you. My wife and I sponsored her sister for citizenship 4 yrs ago and she has been living under my roof off and on ever since. She is HOT HOT HOT but strictly hands off. The result is that my wife is extremely happy cause I'm almost always ready when she is and knowing that my hormones churn at the site of her sis (and yes, we have discussed this) she goes out of her way to accommodate my needs. Its a win win. If you cant discuss this with your GF than keep it to yourself and indulge in a bit of fantasy Nothing unhealthy about that
2006-06-18 05:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by dadazac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what is it with this site today? You've been with a woman for six years and are worried about being near her big sister?
If you are that goofy that you cannot control yourself you need to let your girlfriend know she's better off without you. Six years in and you still don't know she's the one you would not do anything to jeopardize? WHY ARE YOU THERE? GROW UP!
2006-06-18 06:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is that you have acknowledged your attraction to her and are determined not to act upon it because you know it would hurt the person you love the most. Be proud that you are making such an effort to stick to your morals, and use that sense of pride to draw the strength to resolve the situation once and for all.
2006-06-18 04:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Alex should be working 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have but memories of love and Myself would just be a little embarrassed and lacking confidence. Greet her nicely, be real chilled and look very confident. Tell her it is good to see her. Drop in how happy you are, and go out for a beer!
That should piss her off!
2006-06-18 04:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been thinking about that if you're crushed on somebody else that something is wrong in your relationship? What her sister has what your girlfriend doesn't have?
2006-06-18 05:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, you find her so attractive that you can't spend the night under the same roof? That's a problem, buddy! What happens if you marry your girlfriend?
2006-06-18 04:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a serious problem and i think you need to sort it out and as for your gf i would think that she thinks you dont like her sister
2006-06-18 08:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by misty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just nervous. If you love your gf like you say, you'll be fine.
It will be a good test for yourself. If it does rattle you, perhaps you dont love your gf as much as you think......
2006-06-18 04:52:40 · answer #11 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋