what do I do? my boyfriends ex girlfreind came back to town and i want to kno if he still has ferelings for her. how do you find out if he still has feelings?????
2006-06-18 04:33:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that sucks!! Ask him....find out if there were still feelings between them when she left town....if so, I'm sorry...
2006-06-18 04:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by vickififi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend not to suspect anything, but keep your eye on him, check his mobile phone for dialled or recieved calls or even text msgs, but don't let him catch u doing that, if he's seeing her or has feelings for her, he might try to reach her thru his phone, if u are still not satisfied, get a private detective to monitor him, if u can't afford that then do it urself, but i don't think it will get to that stage, monitoring his phone calls will yield something...if he is the emailing or chatting type, u might consider downloading a prog that will grab his password or a keyboard logging software and install it in his system, most of these progs can forward his online activities to your email address...that way u'll be in the driving seat and will know immediately he starts contacting her...thats what i do to my spouse, i've been divorced thrice, so be prepared for the worst when u start monitoring him, u might be suspecting his ex-girl but end up discovering that he has so many other gf's....I gave this advice to a friend and she ended up discovering that her bf was seeing her younger sister...so once again be prepared for the worst, anyway what doesn't kill u only makes u stronger...good luck (or u can just forget about the whole thing and trust him, its ur decision to make, not mine, but if u chose to trust him then don't ask him, asking him won't do any good as far as i am concerned, it might even make him feel ur vulnerable and he might start fantasing seeing her again)
2006-06-18 11:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by gonziiii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is ask, if he's lying you'll find out before long.
Try not to worry about it and enjoy what you have if you are suspicious and keep on at him about it he might get fed up of you.
2006-06-18 11:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rhapsody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed, just ask him. How long ago did they break up? The longer time has gone by, the more unlikely he doesn't have feelings for her anymore.
2006-06-18 11:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Shep 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably really isnt a way. You can ask her, but most likely, if she does, she wont tell you anyways.
2006-06-18 11:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by elijahjaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become friends with her....Then soon it will be safe to ask her yourself.
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2006-06-18 11:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by rpcheergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him...maybe he doesn't he has moved on and your are now his girlfriend...who cares if she moved back into town...she is his ex its not like he is cheating on you.
2006-06-18 11:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry just ask him yesterday i asked my bf if he like my one sort of friend... just ask him and say to him he must be honest my bf yes he like her and i was heartbroken then he said that he met me and she doesn't matter anymore..
well let us know how it went
2006-06-18 11:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by pickaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have to ask him...just say i was wondering and i thought i would ask you do you have any feelings for her anymore
2006-06-18 11:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by ~honey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings or not he should not meet up with her. It's dangerous. Don't allow him to meet her. You have that right.
2006-06-18 11:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋