my friend and my boyfriend had sex and know my friend is pregnenet what sould i do
2006-06-18 04:31:40 · 19 answers · asked by coolbreeze493 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i already broke up with my boyfriend but what to do with my best friend why would she do something like that
2006-06-18 04:36:29 · update #1
its the one with the the triple d bra
2006-06-18 04:41:04 · update #2
AND I JUST FOUND OUT SHE IS PREGANENT WITH TWINS SHE IS ONLY 13
2006-06-18 06:08:42 · update #3
there really is nothing you can do other than stick by her. help her take care of herself. make sure she is confiding in an adult somewhere. she needs to be seeing a doctor now, this will be a ruff time for her. be there for her emotionally.
okay...im sorry i just really read your question. i mist that it was your bf she had sex with. wow. you definatly need to remove him out of your life n i imagine you dont want much to do with her either. it is really up to you and what is in your heart. i am sorry i know this hurts, ive been thru a similar situatin. you can look at this as a sign that the road you were traveling with them is not the one you need to be on. realizing and doing something about that now may save you a lot more heartach n drama later on.
2006-06-18 04:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by mommaslosthermind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so you must've been really hurt to find what two people you trusted did to you. So after breaking up with him, forget your anger. Yes, you must be very hurtm but still she is your friend, and even though she screwed up (big time!) you must remember that we all make mistakes. Be there for her. This will be hard enough for her to go through without you turning your back on her. Do your best to forgive her and support her. This is the best you can do for her and you will eventually (if not now) be glad that you helped your friend and acted as the mature one.
2006-06-24 20:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by crazyrandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom told me to never trust ur freinds with ur man. no matter how much u trust ur friend u will never really know her. dont ever thing someone will not do something. as for ur friend it is very ok if u just stop talk to her. if she is any kind of a good person she already feel bad about this and if she is pregnant she does not need any stress. u can still be the one to do the right thing just let it go. i know thats hard but u really dont have a choice. u need to put all this behind u and make sure u never see them again.
2006-06-18 11:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by jennine75044 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends don't mess with best friends' boyfriends. It is good to have gotten rid of the boyfriend but what to do about the girlfriend...hmmm? I suggest that you be a friend to her and show her how "true" friends are supposed to act. If you still care for her, continue the friendship but, never, ever trust her with your other boyfriends. Boyfriends come and go but true best friends are hard to find...if it weren't her it would have been someone else.
2006-06-18 11:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already broke up with the b/f now kick the friend to the curb also. She is not your friend and you should move on and don't look back. They are both back stabbers and they deserve each other. Best of luck to you as you move on with your life.
2006-06-18 12:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by patticakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it is not u'r fault its Ur friends.just chill and be there for her after all you are her friend.everybody makes mistake an I'm sure this wont happen twice.life is full of surprises,who knows her baby might be the next Mariah Carey / Brad Pitt. your boyfriend deserves to go to hell. your friend needs you right now even though she deserves a big slap.
2006-06-18 11:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by baby gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. This is her problem. It is something she will have to deal with and so will he. If you are upset that they had sex, maybe you should break up with him??? Is this big enough to end your friendship with her? This may be a time when she needs you as her friend most of all. Good luck.
2006-06-18 11:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by Toni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were you I would be happy that it wasn't me! plus you need to feel sorry for them instead of being Angry! both of there lives are screwed forever. move on, you have your whole life ahead of you, so get another boyfriend and a new best friend. good luck
2006-06-18 14:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend and your friend now have to settle as couples...
Since you broke with your boyfriend already... let them live.
2006-06-18 11:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by Avva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them live happily together. Dump the two losers, life is hard enough without having these two snakes in your life!
2006-06-18 11:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by angieasee64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋