I got caught flirting with a woman Now My Wife and Motherinlaw are making me clean dust mop etc...?

Question

They want me to be there maid or My wife will dump me. They own the house cars and I am out of work . They are making me into a real submissive so I will not be anymore fooling around . I can see that they are taking full control over my life ........ I am paying Big for chasing outher women!!!!!!

They ordered a maids uniform for me!!!!

well they cought me xdressing one day also. They have pics of me now too....

Now My wife and Her Mother are emasculating me as a Maid!!!!!

Answer 1

Haha thats the price you got to pay for being a bad boy.

Answer 2

I agree taking a man's "manhood" away will not make him want to stay, but in pain and anger people rataliate. Ever hear of the fight or flight syndrome? Anyway, why were you flirting? I am a flirt by nature, always was and am open about it. My husband doesn't seem to care because it takes him off the hook and I do not do it behind his back so there is nothing mysterious to worry about- he is not a flirt. I realize I am wrong as it is disrespectful to him and the vows we took and if he saw it this way I would stop on the concession that he flirt with me. I am insecure and need a lot of positive feedback.
Okay, your first question makes it out to be just flirting but your detail makes it seem that you are chasing many woman and trying for more than just light flirtation.
Are you insecure to begin with (whether over no job or whatever) and looking for someone to make you feel like a man? Explain to your wife why you did it and if you are sorry, then say so. If you will keep doing it then there is no answer.
Is it really that bad to help around the house? You should have been doing that anyway and not had to wait to be manipulated into it. Sounds like you are just looking for someone to say you weren't wrong or she is more wrong than you, but read I Corinthians 13 in the bible "Love is patient, love is kind. . . "
Sorry if I am being harsh. Hope you find the answer you are looking for.

Answer 3

Hey, at least they let you use the computer. Work hard to get a job and be faithful and true to your wife and hopefully one day you can take care of them and your wife will desire to be submissive to YOU. With your lovely accent you could be a very successful telemarketer within 24 hours, for example. Look in the Classifieds under "Management Trainee." That's how they getcha. The bible says if a man doesn't work, he doesn't eat. The Playa's Manual says if a man doesn't flirt with other women besides his wife then that's a Real Man who will be fruitful, prosperous, happy and satisfied. And free from Mother-in-Law jail.

Answer 4

The wife may extracting her toll but your mother in law needs to get out of your life. That is of course, you are not living in her house. Dude , its time to man up. Get out, get a job and stop being the stepchild. It has nothing to do with chasing woman. It has more to do with you allowing them to emasculate you for not being able to support yourself. You have few choices. It starts with work. If you have to be a maid to stay with the wife you do not want her anyway.

Answer 5

I don't believe that what they are doing to you is something that should happen especially in a relationship. I mean if you flirted sure maybe she might be upset and if you cheated well that is another story but either forgive you or leave. Maybe you ought to become employed and also talk to your wife and tell her you are sorry for what you did but you are not a servant you are her partner and if she wants you to leave then go but also you should know that when you are married to someone whats hers is yours and what is yours is hers. I think her mom should stay out of the situation unless you are hurting her child so that you can work your own problems out.

Answer 6

Sounds like you deserve it man! Why are you flirting with other women when your wife supports you? She is the one feeding you and keeping a roof over your head; and you have the nerve to look at other women!?! I hope you like like wearing the dress! Or
If you don't want to live there, tell your wife! Then move in with your parents or one of your buddies and get a job!

Answer 7

What the heck have you gotten yourself into. Slavery isn't legal in the US. If these people are treating you like this, then it's one of two things. Either your a lying, cheating, scumbag who deserves it, or your wife and mother-in-law are sado-masichistic insecure neurotics. I say, either way, get out !!!! There's so many naked pictures of people out there now, that no one's gonna even care. Start over & get your life back, otherwise, your gonna be a 50 year old person who's wife taked naked pictures of him to get him to do what she wants.

Answer 8

Sounds to me that's what u deserve u do have a mouth u could have told her u were tired of her and that u waned to look for other women and if ur intentions are not to leave her well then i suggest u keep on putting up with everything she is making u do u have to do everything to win her back and make her trust u again.

Answer 9

These women can't MAKE you do anything. You chose to do these things to avoid losing your place to live, wife, familty, etc. If you are interested in other women why don't you leave your wife? If you love your wife, then why flirt with other women? Sounds like you have some growing up to do.

Answer 10

Ladies do a lot, surely but men also do a lot. Ladies do all as per personal taste. I want food without onion and I get food with onion. Thank to ladies in my home.