Ok, so to start of i am bi. Well i have know my friend cassie for a longggg timee turns out she's bi to. So we start liking eachother. Then i meet his guy jack and i luv everryting about him, hansome great personality now a pig like most guys only problem ... he's gay. So i try to get over jack and i do. Now me and Cassie have been going out for two days now. Jack IM's me last night and tells me he's confused cuz he like's me and he thought he ways gay but he likes me so now he thinks he's bi. I realy like him and if I had known he liked me b4 i said yes to cassie i would have gone out with him in a second. Now i dont want to be unfair to cassie cuz i realy like her to and she' s my girlfriend. What do I do???!!!!
2006-06-18 04:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by Nymphomaniac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To make this clearer - Cassie and i have been dating a hellava long time however we have been "together" only two days :P
2006-06-18 04:30:44 · update #1
To make this clearer - Cassie and i have been dating a hellava long time however we have been "together" only two days :P
2006-06-18 04:30:47 · update #2
You've been going out for ONLY 2 days??
I'd go and be with Jack. If you don't you'd always wonder., what if. As for Cassie, you haven't been with her for long, you shouldn't be "exclusive" after that short of a time. You both should be free to date around before you decide to "go steady" with just one person.
2006-06-18 04:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are attracted to Jack but he might have lied about the gay thing to get you in the first place or, worse yet, he really is gay, do you really want to be with a guy who is having sex with other guys???? How could you ever trust him? He could not go out with the guys, or you would wonder what is going on. Rather he is a liar or just sleeping with other guys, I would not want him. You would always have to use condoms with him, always, no exceptions, and even then, you would still be at risk. You are in a new relationship with a friend and it would be wrong to hurt her over an attraction that could not amount to anything considering the circumstances. You will get over Jack. Concentrate on Cassie and making her happy. Good Luck.
2006-06-18 11:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by cherryred64gto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, tuff question. I think that if Jack was gay for a long time this bi thing might not last wait a while with cassie she sounds like a good girl friend. :) good luck
2006-06-18 11:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by SexyLilChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since u and cassie have been friends for a while i say stick with her. She's more likely to be reliable and trust worthy. she'll always b there 4 u even if you do break up.
2006-06-18 11:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the real deal baby and be with Jack If casssie is a real friend she will still be there just no more licky licky
2006-06-18 11:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by hd_wideglide_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is natural, that would be a guy and a gurl. if you want kids someday, cassie ain't doing it for you.
2006-06-18 11:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since all 3 of you are doing that "bi" thing why don't you have yoursleves a "tri" thing and that way you get him and her both....if you do it, can you video tape it and let me have a copy....
2006-06-18 11:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if its ok if you have a bf to i know som1 else who has both and its ok with every1 her herbf and her gf
2006-06-18 11:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋