when he did nothing for you on mopthers day but buy you a gift which i a good thing but the point i'm trying to get across is this ...a women has to go through alot of thing ..child birth ,mentalpose, an everything an if you are a women you know what i'm talking about . we should have our food brought to our beds all the time cause we are verey important...why elso you think we was put on this earth for to have y'all kids i don't think so.... well give your input on what you think about this first person with a good answer get 10 points!
2006-06-18 03:32:15 · 10 answers · asked by fe-fe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A good father is a blessing beyond belief. A good mother is a blessing in which you never learn to appreciate. I don't think catering to him is bad or good, it's simply your choice. But you are right, most mothers do so much more than fathers, but both are a blessing.
You shouldn't give a gift because u are repaying for his gift, you should do it because u want to. If you don't want to, don't do it.
2006-06-18 03:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by letmesurpriseu 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I assume you're talking about a significant other & not your own father.
Mothers & Fathers Day isn't a competition.... & it's not his fault he was born male & mother nature made women be the ones to carry and birth babies.
Do what you feel is right. If you don't think he deserves to be treated special, then don't treat him special. Nobody is perfect - perhaps he didn't treat you the way you'd like on Mother's Day... maybe he'll make up for it next year (maybe not) Doesn't mean he doesn't love you or appreciate you either!
Guys think differently then women - particularly when it comes to doing romantic special things.
2006-06-18 10:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basis for celebrating anything should be love, trust and respect. These are qualities that build, nurture, support and enhance a relationship. Communication is vital to round this out. Ya gotta be up front and able to handle real honest criticism, as well as listen critically to what others have to say. When you discuss things, be honest, clear and complete. Leave the attitude at the door, and treat people as you wish to be treated.
When both people do this in a relationship then things balance out. Your needs are met, and your partner's needs are met.
Look inside FIRST when unsure of things, do you do ALL you possibly can to ensure your partner is taken care of before yourself??? Do you see your partner thinking and acting the same way??? Regardless of the answers, what are you doing to foster, encourage and support this changing from a 'concept' as I'm discussing it, to being the full-face-REALITY throughout your life?
Good luck. There's about 80-90 years left for you to enjoy things. Go for it, with gusto!!!
2006-06-18 10:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by megettingbetter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he did is buy you a gift, and all you can do is obsess about how tough you have it as a wife and mother? Whine, whine, whine. You poor misused, under-appreciated thing. You sound so self-absorbed that the best gift you could give this guy on Father's Day is to leave him alone. Do it, and make the poor guy happy for once in his life.
2006-06-18 10:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by blorgo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say cater to his needs, but at least acknowledge that its fathers day. It really isnt a competition, show him you love him. He is taking care of his kids right? I could see if he wasnt taking care of his kids, but he is and thats really the important part.
2006-06-18 10:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say cater to him- it's only for one day- if you want the same treatment on mother's day- i say you should demand it.
as a female we get no special right of way just cause we bear children , go through memopause, etc. it's just what's natural- for the most part we all have to go through it-
2006-06-18 10:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by shalirha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't get you anything for Mother's Day, that would be very good of you to get him something anyway!!! Did he not do anything special for you at all either??? Do you mean anything special to him at all??? How many children do you have by him??? And if he didn't do anything special for you on Mother's Day, he should have!!!
2006-06-18 10:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you're talking about your mate, no. He's not your father.
But if you're talking bout your father, and you love and respect him, then I would say yes. One day out of 365 is no big deal.
Let him know how much he means to you.
2006-06-18 10:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree plus i dont like my dad so ya but at least your hubby got you a gift sometimes my dad doesnt buy my mom gifts for important days
2006-06-18 10:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,im with you on this one............i asked my dad wat are we doin for fathers day and he goes like"what is fathers day?" im like ok,not my problem,lol
2006-06-18 10:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by ♥D@t_bLaSiaN♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋