The woman whom I love is getting married, but the bridegroom is not me. What should I do?
2006-06-18 01:38:06 · 17 answers · asked by Chinarose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get over it!
2006-06-18 01:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by BECKER 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has chosen someone else you need to respect her decision. I know exactly how you feel. I would try to stay friends and see if things eventually work out. If she really loves you in this day and age of divorce she will see her mistake and seek you out. You can express your love to her but don't make her uncomfortable with you. Let her know you love her and if anything should happen you will be there for her. I know this is a hard thing to do but it may be your best approach. I know this is an old saying but if you love something very much set it free, if it returns love it forever, if it does not it was not meant to be.
2006-06-18 02:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by tonguedeep24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I actually have known others who have experienced the same problem and went ahead and forgave the intended and married him. Both of the women are now divorced because their husbands were faithful for only a short a time after their marriages before they began to play the field again..
2016-05-20 00:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do when a woman has come to her decision who she is in love with. I think you had your chances but since you are not the one that she loves. Let it go! Hold on to yourself!
Improve yourself, get someone who appreciate you. She is not the only one on earth. You will be alright in no time as long as you accept the fact that she is not yours.
2006-06-18 04:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Noel Yelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought i was in love once too but things didnt work out. you might think u cant live without this guy/girl, but when its real, when the love is meant to be, youll know it because you will be the bride/groom. the only way youll be able to move on is by talking to this person. theres no harm in knowing the truth. otherwise youll always wonder what could have happened...at least youll know how they feel...
2006-06-18 01:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by af4sguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this love isn't returned so why waste your precious time on her anyway? There is someone out there for you..........get over this woman as she is marrying someone else and get a new love of your life.
2006-06-18 02:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you already know the answer to that question.If you waited so long, you are doubting she loves you back and if she's getting married and goes on with the wedding , then you will have your answer right there.Don't torture yourself with it.Call her and wish her happiness and try to mean it.It will help .And time will too.
2006-06-18 02:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by anilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to accept the fact that she loves someone else, which is why she's marrying someone else. From there, you have to move on and find someone that you can love that can love you back.
2006-06-18 02:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're honestly in love with her, then tell her how you feel. You never know, she may feel the same. Take a leap of faith. You've got nothing to lose.
2006-06-18 04:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel before the big day and if she feels the same way there should not be a problem except for the current groom!!
2006-06-18 03:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by thatgirl127 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOUR LOVE IS TRUE AND THE WOMAN LOVES YOU, THEN YOU MUST TRY HARD TO MARRY HER. IF THE WOMAN DOES NOT LOVE YOU. YOU MUST LEAVE HER AND WAIT FOR SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU
2006-06-18 01:42:34 · answer #11 · answered by anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋