i am newly married guy i am also physicaly very weak,i am not responding to the demands of my wife ( i hope u are undertanding what i mean to say) i usualy have very quick ejaculation what should i do ,advise me, should i go to My Docter or do some sort of exersises...thanx plzz answer me in detail and in easy English ,because my Enhglish is not so good..thanx
2006-06-18 01:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by kashif 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
HI NEWLY MARRIED GUY ....CONGRATS......
BEING A FEMALE IT IS NOT EASY FOR ME TO PUT MYSELF IN YOUR SHOES BUT IN TERMS OF YOUR PROBLEMS THEY HAVE MEDICATIONS AND TOOLS AVAILABLE FROM YOUR DOCTOR DON'T BE AFRAID TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT YOUR SITUATION I'M MOSTLY CONCERNED ABOUT THE STATEMENT THAT YOU ARE PHYSICALLY WEAK DO YOU HAVE ANY KNOWN HEALT ISSUES ? HEART DISEASE, DIABETES, LUNG PROBLEMS? DO YOU SMOKE? DRINK HEAVILY ? DO YOU EXERCISE? DO EAT ENOUGH PROTEIN AND GET ENOUGH ZINC AND MAGNESIUM IN YOUR DIET THIS IS SOMETHING A LOT OF MEN NEED BUT DON'T KNOW IT. THERE ARE MANY THINGS YOU CAN DO TO GET YOUR BODY BUILT UP JUST DON'T BE AFRAID TO MAKE SURE YOU COVER ALL THE BASES WHEN IT COMES TO TAKING CARE OF YOUR HEALTH SO YOU BE AROUND TO BE "BIG DADDY" TO YOUR WOMAN....BEST WISHES TO YOU AND YOUR WOMAN
2006-06-18 01:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sun Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One thing you can try that works for anyone is to periodically rest. Take a few thrusts and pause, a few more and pause...this is a technique that I have used to keep on going for a very long time. You can take as many thrusts as you can before you begin to feel an orgasm coming on, then stop and wait for it to pass, and then start up again. I can do this almost indefinitely, the problem is after a while you get to the point where you desperately want to lose it, so when that happens I just keep thrusting and don't stop, and in a short time I lose control completely. It feels good that way, being able to maintain the thrusting for as long as you want. If you have an orgasm too soon you miss out on all the wonderful feeling leading up to it.
2006-06-18 08:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, congratulations. I take it you find your wife very desirable. It's common for a man to get so excited that he often has a premature ejaculation. Go to your doctor and have a complete physical examination to see if there might be something organically wrong with you. If not, then explain the problem to him. He might refer you to a sexual therapist, who will give you exercises that you can practice with your wife to prolong your orgasm. Just remember, take it slow.
2006-06-18 10:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bacchante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time you think sex is a serious matter and not a fun time for 2 people you will always have problems
increase the foreplay to an hour or two or........
thats the fun part before sex
try to relax maybe have a beer or seven
hope that helps her
2006-06-18 08:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by benji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can buy condoms with a small amount of anaesthetic in it which will help you to have sex longer before you ejaculate. Also, there are some drugs available from your doctor so go and see him.
2006-06-18 08:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by Galaxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do her twice in a row you should laster longer the second time around put her on top the second time
2006-06-18 08:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hv 2 eat well and exercise. dont worry too much. eat eat and eat and then exercise . ur wife wil giv u necessary feedback:)
2006-06-18 08:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by anthonygonzalvez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor. Medicines can help you.
2006-06-18 08:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by treefrog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thinking about sex can actually make it happen quicker, or thinking or how enjoyable it is too much, sorry if it's not much help
2006-06-18 08:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by kjoyce4213@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c ur doctor
2006-06-18 08:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋