He is a contractor/ painter.He works hard 5-6 days a week all day long.He can get a job at whatever base I go to because of his experience and quality of work.He wants to take college classes.He wants me to cross-train into the medical field and be a doctor like my dad.I want to just work my way up and see what happens.I have taken college classes, and he was in private school.I have told him many time to stop talking to me like that and it makes me feel like crap when he says that about my job. He turns it into a joke.The big problem is that the other people he has met that I work with take our job as a joke.And they don't like it or the people we work with,so my husband thinks that that is how it really is.I have had opportunites to bring him in to acutally see what I do and get in the jets and everything, he just says,"I have to work" I think he feels threatened because we make the same and he used to make twice as much.
2006-06-18 00:50:47 · 4 answers · asked by chica123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whether he is proud of you,and respects you or not, I DO! I think you do a great job. He has jealousy issues, toward you. Tell him to mind his own business, and you'll take care of yours. Thank you for the job you do.....KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!
2006-06-18 01:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time to accept the changes. assure him that it means nothing just coz ur earning more than him. dont judge him, just be with him. show him that he means more than what he earns.
2006-06-18 01:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your husband has very little respect for you. talk to him about this, or talk to him about divorce. you deserve to be with someone who loves, cares, and respects you.
2006-06-18 00:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that its okay that he doesn'tmake as much moeny as you do.
2006-06-18 00:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋