I have known this guy for a good almost five years. The first year I hated him. He kept bugging me until I gave in just to become friends. Then it grew to be more for the past three years. I cant help but be so happy to finally get to meet him and his family. I am nervous more as to what he will think. Why? Well because I've never had that holding hands,cuddle,kiss,stay by each second boyfriend. I'm fifteen, and well....heh yeah never had that. Its just all as if I need it now, but yet I'm so nervous to meet the one that doesn't spoil me because he loves me. Or talk sweet each and every day but once in a while so its even more to hold onto and not like a everyday thing. He doesn't put me first in things. I like that because it shows he has a life and is not like I am sometimes to him. I'm sure it gets annoying when I call just about every night =p
2006-06-18 00:05:34 · 7 answers · asked by ~Elle~ 2 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
When you meet him, do it in a public place, and take someone big and strong with you (maybe your dad?) just to be on the safe side.
I met my husband online, and we've been together since early 1999, married since the end of 2000, but when he first came to see me, I took a 6'3" friend with me to the airport to pick him up. Also, I had spoken with his mother, sister, daughter, and colleagues before we met.
There are a lot of good people out there, but there are some rotten, vicious ones too. Some are altogether different from the way they present themselves online. You can't be too careful.
Good luck! Be safe.
2006-06-18 00:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Muddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love online is the most stupid thing that can happen, but it does happen a lot. People get enamored sometimes by mystery. If you really like to meet him, go with someone else, cause you really dont know yet what this guy is like. A person online can be very different from who he/she really is. If you think you can be friends with him after meeting him, then maybe then and only then can you take it to the next level. Right now, take precaution. There are a lot of vultures out there, preying on kids, lonely people, or just plain suckers.
2006-06-18 07:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by judge_d'red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres some good advie. (im a 15 year old boy and hasnt had a girlfriend.) Well, I would just try to be myself. Of course, try to make your friend happy. Tell him something interesting that has happened to you. Share thoughts and feelings. Surely this way, he'll like you, and you'll like him for that as well. Be nice. Hope it goes well.
Good Luck!
2006-06-18 07:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Emad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello????? you cannot tell what someone is like online. I dont care if its been 5 years of 5days, you cannot possible REALLY know him so just be careful. you are very young and it sounds like this is your first 'relationship' to BE CAREFUL and what ever you do...DO NOT GO ALONE TO MEET HIM!!!!!!!!!!! Make sure you go with a friend, and make sure your family and friends know EXACLTY where you are ok.
2006-06-18 07:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must not meet him unless your parents know were you are going and in this day and age you would be silly to meet some 1 that you dont realy know.....
2006-06-18 07:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by liam13399 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wheres the question here?sounds like a blog entry.
2006-06-18 07:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Two words: Don't go. You are too young to be doing this. Please, don't go!
2006-06-18 07:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋