How can I cange my character in front of a person whom i've dissapointed????Can I??

Question

I've met this girl a couple of weeks ago.....she is all i've ever dreamed i would find in a girl....i've known her since i was little....but now i've screwed-it all up .....i don't know what to do....is there a way to bring her back...after she called me stupid....and she said she never goes back for anybody or anything......could there be a way?is there somebody who knows how to deal with these complexe characters?

I DON'T WANT TO CHANGE MY FACE OR ANY PART OF MY BODY!It's my personality in front of her that i want to change......i want to right the wrongs i've done.....she even said it herself...it's to bad i'm so preety but so stupid.....!

i'm 18 , shee's 21....

Answer 1

As difficult as it may be you need to move on from this. Often we are presented with these tests in order to teach us something. All you can really do is look at your behaviour and promise yourself to behave differently in future. If you are meant to be with this girl she will notice the changes in you and will want to get to know you better. If not then she's not for you. Someone else is waiting around the corner. Good luck.

Answer 2

Why would you want to change? That doesn't make any sense. Did you just do one stupid thing? Or does she actually not like who you are? I mean, if you made a single mistake, give her some credit, all is not lost. People can be very forgiving. However, if you just aren't the type of person she wants, let it be. Changing yourself for someone else is never a good idea. How long are you going to keep this act up? Your whole life? Sooner or later you'll grow tired of being who she wants you to be rather than who you are. Then what? You've wasted a lot of time for a very hard lesson.

Answer 3

What you could do is change your character in a way where she knows that you would never disappoint her anymore or screw it up. Try to make her see that your worth going back for. You've got to be able to learn to deal with all kinds of characters not knowing what kind of people will be in and out of your life. Especially this girl. One question: Is she worth it?

Answer 4

Send her a delicious cake with 'humble pie' written all over it and one slice sliced off, with a card saying: I've eaten humble pie for you. You may not get the girl back, but you will rise in her estimation of you and whenever she thinks of you she'll smile. Isn't that worth eating humble pie for.
One don't. Don't try to get in touch with her too soon. Leave it at least a month or two. I know it sounds a long time, but to approach her too soon will kill any chance you may have with her. Good luck.

Answer 5

Yes, I think you can right a wrong. Tell her how you feel. She might surprise you and has feelings for you. Maybe she doesn't know that the feelings are there if, and until, you say something. I didn't know how much I loved my husband of almost 13 years until he told me that he was falling in love with me. I knew I cared about him but not that much and the feelings were brought to the surface.

Answer 6

There was a show on F/X called Nip/Tuck. Perhaps you could do that plastic surgery thing yourself. Why would you ask this in the Women's Studies department.

Answer 7

if its meant to happen btwn u 2 nothin can stop it all i can tell u is to try n if it doesnt work out move on with ur life there is definitely s1 out thea who will like u for who u r

Answer 8

You are stupid if you want to change who you are to suit someone else.

It won't work...

Answer 9

plastic surgey

Answer 10

start being nice