just curious as to what partners/ex partners have ever done to hurt you?.mine told me that he wouldnt speak to me in front of his mates coz they thought i was a slag!!!( lovely eh!!!!).
2006-06-17 21:48:26 · 16 answers · asked by bmw.girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well he left me on my birthday (14 Feb). came back to me the same day, then left me again about a week later for a younger girl. Then came back to me cuz she couldn't do it right. and then left me again. but that's ok I'm over him now, so we are just friends and nothing else will happen. ( o and i knew the girl, i was friends with her sister and we use to chill together).
2006-06-17 23:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nicky C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too have a husband that is deceased and he was a classic verbal abusive person. I did not realize it was so bad until after he was gone. I thought I was the dumbest person on the earth and that no one wanted to speak to me about anything, and I kept apologising all of the time to everyone.
I was lost and did not know what to do next. He controlled me to the point of obsession of possession while he screwed anything that had legs and a *******. And I did not even know it!
I swore after I got my self together that no man would ever make me into that kind of oatmeal brain again. The one in the relationship who cares the least is the one in control of the relationship!
I intend to stay in control of my life as much as possible. I am not a thing that is to be used manipulated all for the fun of some man who has not got anything with out my doing all of the things to make it happen.
I am not so much bitter as I am just determined not to become a idiot for love ever agian. and I will never put up with a man like him ever again. I should have left him right after I married him, but i was a person who took her promise with a heavy debt. And I did not leave him he went at the end of thedeath due us part.
2006-06-18 05:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im going to answer this one,which answering questions about me is not something i do.not for any reason than i believe what is past is just that-past and i prefer to concentrate on the here and now,but since you asked.
i will keep it short i was living with a scotish girl in england.we had been together for eight years,trying for a baby for about hree years.we moved to scotland to be near her familyshe got pregnent after about a year that made about 4 years tryingh.before my daughter was 1 year old she left me for a scottish m,an who i thought was a good friend.thats about 8 years ago now and although i dont dwell in the opast i do now find it hard to trust,sorry ladies im sure your not all the same.
mike
2006-06-23 17:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by listener06y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was my first gf, i was 14 at the time, we had a fight over somthing so unimportant, i dont even remember what it was, then i went back to apologize for being a jerk, i brought her 12 longstem roses and apologized, she took them, threw them in her fireplace (it was winter, there was a fire going) screamed at me that the whole world would be better off if i commited suicide. i tried a few times and it never worked, she caught me at it once, she just stood there and watched me string up the noose and set up everything. when the rope snapped and i didnt die, she laughed, and said i was so much of a failure i couldnt even kill myself right.
2006-06-18 05:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner is deceased now, but when he was alive, he used to tell our friends personal things about me - I never quite understood why but he was sickly, so perhaps because of his illnesses he did this, but I felt so embarrassed and angry when I found out what he was doing.
2006-06-18 04:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's really messed up and I also think you deserve some one better... You shouldn't have to put up with his crap... or maybe you should just tell him the same... for him not to talk to you in front of your mates.... :) P/O
2006-06-18 04:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by childress_bobcat_fan1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why anyone should get hurt from his partner? Always keep detached attachment.
2006-06-18 04:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine tried to drug me last week. Actually he succeeded in drugging me but my friend had to push him out of the taxi to make it so he couldn't follow up on drugging me, at which point he apparently started screaming at her (though I can't remember any of this, being in a drugged state). Really nice guy...
2006-06-18 04:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...I get taken for granted constantly, ignored in favor of "social" things and rarely are my needs considered. Hurt? Yeah.
2006-06-18 04:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last girlfriend broke off our relationship and called me a pervert. All because I asked her to sit on my face!
2006-06-19 01:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by submike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋