whats your best way of coping with heartache?

Question

how would you deal with seeing an ex in your local with his new partner....?( your extremely hurt)

Answer 1

start meeting new guys..
d best way 2 mend a broken heart is 2 divert ur thoughts & attention 2 somebody new..

Answer 2

My best way of coping with heartache (the expirience is one year old) is giving a hard work to my body. It can be manual work (mostly in a stable) or sport (riding a bike or crosscountry for a long distance is the best for me). I was doing it alone so i could think a lot. Thinking + endorphines helped me a lot. Well, the pain stayed for almost five moths, but i could live with it quite normally because i tided up in my brain.
I not only saw my expartner with his new partner, i also was with them at one place for two days. I have known them both and i like them both. I was very jealous as i saw them in the evening sitting among us... and also upset. My solution was that i stood up and went to sleep. The pain was very strong and i suffered again. I needed this experience to realize the reality. After this, i finally found the balance and do not mind being with them and other friends.

Answer 3

First, it would be easier for us to know what that reason for your heartache is. All in all, you might have heard this a million times but time is the only thing that can make it go away. I've been through it and came to realize that time is what you need. Otherwise, just try to keep yourself as busy as you can with other things and try not thinking about the heartache. Hope this helps

Answer 4

it varies with people. it depends on how well u connected with them. a couple may be together for years and break it off and move on the next day like nothing ever happened. others may be together for just a short while and have to heal for quite a while. i have been in both situations and other variations as well. Time is no object. Most people say that it depends on how long two people were together. that couldn't be any farther from the truth. it does have a factor when you look at the history of the people before the relationship though. if two people meet and are together for a short while and move on, usually it doesn't take long. however, if the two people have known each other for an extended amount of time and then get together, it really varies. it just depends on a person's emotional capacity and how devoted they were to their former partner and the circumstances of the break-up.

Answer 5

Small town like here huh? I can understand your pain. Those sort of things pull at your heart. Why has he moved on and appears happy and your not right?

All good things come to those who wait. I would move on go out with friends. Enjoy your freedom and Mr Right will come along and sweep you off your feet when you least expect it. It may have hurt you seeing him with his new partner but the day he sees you with yours and sees you happy will be his b*tchslap across the face.

Life is very strange the way things occur and turn out. Later down the track your ex might end up bald or fat or really unappealing and when you meet and say HI you can thank god for unanswered prayers ;)

Always believe everything happens for a reason and usually for the better. (although at the time we cant see that)

Karmas sweet remember ;)

Good Luck

Answer 6

The best way to deal with a broken heart is to reach out and help people who need it. It gets your mind off of yourself. Do some kind of charity work. I found this worked as I saw others much worse off than me and realised my blessings in life. If you see your ex and his new partner be gracious - be polite - rise above pettiness. After all, you don't really want him if he doesn't want you...the right person will come along at the right time.

Answer 7

The best way of coping with heartache is to understand your true spiritual identity and your relationship with God, that way nothing in this world will ever cause you any unhappiness.

The Bhagavad-Gita explains that whilst we are in the material world we cannot possibly find any lasting happiness. Every endeavour to find some little happiness also incurs some distress.

The Bhagavad-Gita explains that when you try and rebuilt your relationship with the true benefactor (God) he will help you experience ultimate joy which is only found in him.

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Answer 8

As difficult as it would be, I would try to be philosophical and say that it simply was not meant to be. For me, it would also depend upon how long since we had broken up, and whether I had begun to see someone else.

I might get depressed over it for a few days, but I would try to keep myself busy and do those things that I enjoy doing.

The passage of time is what will heal those wounds - just give yourself time to mourn the passing of the relationship, and then move on.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

Ooo, that's uncomfortable.
As long as they aren't harassing you when they see you, don't give them the satisfaction by getting upset.

Heartache seems like it will last forever but the more you do to distract yourself, the sooner you'll get over it. Throw yourself into work or school, join a volunteer group, get some exercise...
Keep yourself busy and try to surround yourself with other people.

Hang in there!

Answer 10

moving on will help. like people say, it takes time to heal all wounds. so, indulge yourself in sports and have time spent with friends. you may also give chance to others who treat you special and love you. gudluck!