2006-06-17 21:43:40 · 6 answers · asked by Rajiv K 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Wow... so many people answering "just don't make it feel as good".
What's the point of having sex last longer if it's BORING?
Okay, in order to make it last longer and still feel just as good, without having to resort to doing things like use a topical anaesthetic on your penis, do this:
First, when you're having intercourse, pay attention to the muscles you're using to thrust with. Chances are they're the muscles in your butt and in your thighs. Believe it or not, that makes you have an orgasm quicker.
Instead, let those muscles relax and switch to thrusting with your lower back. It will keep intercourse feeling just about as good as always, you don't have to lose any of the sensation, and it will last longer.
Second, if you prefer an approach where the female gets to be on top, lay down and instead of keeping your legs flat on the floor (or mattress, or whatever), pull them up so your thighs are at a forty-five degree angle away from you. Then while she's on top, let her lean back against your legs. This not only gives her a bit of support to relax on, but it points your penis down and away from your head, which again prolongs the period before you ejaculate without having to sacrifice the sensitivity.
This also works if she likes to face away from you. All she need do at that point is lean forward and brace herself on your knees with the palms of her hand. It puts your penis at the same angle and provides the same effect.
No fancy toys, no de-sensitizing lubes needed.
Also, as always, I recommend learning to become multi-orgasmic (yep, it's possible for men, too). Check out the books "Any Man Can" and "The Multi-Orgasmic Male". Both are excellent instruction manuals to keying you into getting to not only last longer, but have a whole lot more fun than you thought possible while doing it.
Any more questions, just let me know. =)
2006-06-17 22:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by AndiGravity 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before actual intercourse the couple has to spent much time in external sex.,and mostly of her likings.The first few minutes of intercourse has to be spent without any strokes.Your penis will get adjusted to the new environment.PLEASE LEAVE five minutes and slowly start only one storke and leave two minutes.kiss her breasts and suckling nipples will help to get her to climax.allways remeber she has to be satisfied first be slow and patient and tension free.leave the choice to her and act as per her wish.YOu can certenly inrease the period of intercorse
2006-06-17 22:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by jranganatham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use this lube called Maintain (made by Durex)... it desensitizes you. And do Kegel exercises... that's basically like trying to stop the flow of your urine while peeing. You can do that anytime... just contract those muscles. It will help you stop ejaculation and you'll be able to swing your penis up and down.
2006-06-17 21:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Almost MD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By having the male stop for a few seconds when he feels close to having an orgasm. This will prolong it.
2006-06-17 21:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by fixer of all aka mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a condom to cut down sensitivity
use a numbing lotion or gel to cut down on the sensitivity
(the less it feels good, the longer it will last)
2006-06-17 21:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by wanda s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a cock ring.....keeps the blood in ur penis...just dont use it longer than 20 mins....
2006-06-17 21:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by foxtel_iq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋