2006-06-17 21:12:47 · 27 answers · asked by charmaine j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do what you want. If you want to then do it. If you do not feel comfortable then don't do it. Once you have sex with him you will just be another feather in his hat and on to the next one he will go.
2006-06-17 21:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by MiKe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are on the fence about it and don't know what to do, then give yourself time and really think out if this is someone you really want a future with or just a companion you want to have fun with. At least the time will show what he will do. If he leaves you or cheats, he doesn't respect you or might do it anyway if you would give in. Same for if you don't want to. Don't do it if you don't want to. Don't do it if you aren't ready. Put yourself up there on a pedestal and figure out when you want it and who you want it with, then decide. You only get one first time. If he is being a jerk physically then you have the right to defend yourself as well. At any rate sit back, think about it, and have fun with your life as well as respect your body. Don't let him complicate you by pushing you. I am not bashing the boyfriend by the way, just showing you to think of you first. Good luck!
2006-06-17 21:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by D.T. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not comfortable having sex. If he persists, break up with him. He's not a good guy to force you to do this. Remember, if you are younger than sixteen, it's most likely against the law for you to have sex depending on your state.
2006-06-18 02:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if he can't let you have the time needed he is not with you for love, you are better than to give in to him. it is your body. buy him a porn mag and tell him to get off your back and give you some time. if he wont let you go at your own pace just break up with him. it may be hard but you deserve the best.
2006-06-17 21:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by theswarm666x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up and walk away. He obviously has no respect for your feelings. NEVER give in to someone like that. Sex is NOT GOOD if your heart is not in it!
2006-06-17 22:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by bikerpjb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not ready for sex and if he cannot respect you for that,then tell him to hit the road and go find himself a hoe,and for you,find someone that will respect you and wait till you are ready.
2006-06-17 21:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him what he wants! NO no no im just playing, you come first always and forever. You have to decide if you want to or not, if you do, then go ahead. If you dont, let him know and he should have the respect to go along with it.
2006-06-17 21:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by chocolate_drip08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok that it just wrong. if he really liked you he would wait for u. if ur not ready then just be like hey back off. and if he breaks up with you then he was only in it for the sex anyways.
2006-06-18 03:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by babydoll10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. tell him firmly that you are not ready yet, and he should stop pressuring you. if he doesn't understand this and keeps pushing leave him. he doesn't love you or care about you he's just looking for sex.
there are a lot of nice guys out there who will treat you the way you ought to be.
2006-06-17 21:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, and get away! From him. If he really liked you, he wouldn't try and MAKE you have sex with him...
If he wants free samples, tell him to go to Baskin Robbins.
2006-06-17 23:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋