As im a girl so i cant say him that i love him and also im an eastern girl so in my society it is not good if a girl takes first step.So please tell me a way that my boy would say me that he loves me by himself.
2006-06-17 20:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by Sanobar S 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He is not a boy, he is a man. You cannot make men love you, they have to decide for themselves. If you think it will work out between the two of you, then you should try to be his friend. The last thing you want to do is go all teenage-girlie-crush on him. He is 33 and that means he has had 14 more years to gain experience and maturity than you have had. If you come out and say "do you like me, I mean like-like me?" he may laugh. Just be yourself, and dont force him into anything, or try to pin him down to an answer. Dont spring the word "love" on him too quickly.
2006-06-17 21:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 33, you better hope he's mature enough at this point to ask a girl out if he's interested. If he doesn't, sorry, but he probably isn't. Now that could be because he thinks you're too young to like him, but if you can't show interest because of your culture and beliefs, then there's not much you can do. Maybe bring up in conversation sometime that one of your friends is dating a guy 14 years older than her and see what he thinks.
2006-06-17 21:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by senormooquacka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dating? If you are in a romantic relationship I think you should forget culture and tell him you love him. If you are not in any sort of romantic relationship don't tell him you love him! Just tell him you are attracted to him and would like him to be your boyfriend...and then in time tell him you love him. Age doesn't matter, I have been in love with older men also. If you don't tell him he will never know and nothing may come of it...there's no way to make him say he loves you if he doesn't know you love him. You have to tell him you are interested! If you wait for a man to be interested in you and never go for your own interest, you may end up with someone you don't like as much!
2006-06-19 08:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by moonbaby279 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you a way to make someone say those words to you. if he does, he will, and that's just the way it is. sorry. however, he might be waiting for you to say it first. he might not be aware of internal cultural conflict you are feeling, you might concider a way to tell him about the limits of what your able to do if a girl in your culture liked a boy. example: ask him if it is concidered improper for a girl to tell a boy she liked him in his culture. if he says it's not, you could responed, with a big wow! i wish it was that easy in my culture, i could never ever tell a boy i liked him, no matter how much i wanted to, it's concidered not good.
i think that's a good way to let him know that even if you wanted to, you wouldn't be able to make the first move. if he is smart and he is interested, he will deff get the point.
good luck!!
age is just a number.
2006-06-18 06:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 year old eastern girl for a 33 year old poppasan. What a waste. Find someone more in your age range.
2006-06-17 21:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by MiKe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before "love", you need a relationship. It don't sound like you have one just yet. What you need to do is start filling his needs staying within the limits of your customs. I suggest you read, "His Needs, Her Needs - Building an affair-proof marriage". It's a book meant to help you keep someone, but it also shows how a person can gain someone.
2006-06-17 21:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by scavenger_meat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not eastern and don't worry much about the girl giving the first step... but it really worries me he's a little bit too old for you, be careful, girl.. older guys have really, really awful tricks to use on young girls.
2006-06-17 21:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DON'T NEED A ''BOY'' OF 33. TRY A MAN OF 19 OR 20.
2006-06-17 21:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by romadgo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl hes too old. you cant possibly have anything in common trust me i have been there and done that. i was 19 he was 31. he beat me up and cheated on me also he would go out to the bars and i couldnt get in i was too young. i got teased by people in school they would ask me how it felt to go out with my dad. it didnt work out.
2006-06-17 21:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by tx_lady_806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 33. i am from Iran and i know your Feeling but you need sometimes forget your couture especially in this case that is very important . i promise you he understand your feeling and he give sweet answer. go in and don't waste time
2006-06-18 02:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by sherifpour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋