girls feel pressure, too, so take a deep breath and look for an opportunity to talk to her. The approach will be different depending on how well you know her. If she's already a good friend, you can suggest a movie for just the two of you, or whatever activity you have in common. If she blows you off, she's not interested. Give her a little gift, or pick flowers for her, or any of that traditional hokey stuff that guys don't do anymore. Just don't give her anything too expensive. That'll just make her uncomortable. Try to gage her reaction. If she throws her arms around you or makes a big fuss, she probebly likes you, too. If she seems really lukewarm about it, chalk it up to "not interested". And if it's somewhere in the middle, a bit better than just polite, you've got as good a shot as anyone else. If it's someone you've barely spoken to in class or something, it'll take some time to get to know her well enough to ask her out. You may find that once she opens her mouth, the appeal is gone. Give her a chance to get to know you, and establish a friendship first. Either way, while girls don't like to be rushed, they're a bit more comfortable when a guy makes the first move. And don't do anything your ego can't handle. Remember, egos aren't made of glass, so they're fairly easy to repair. Go fot it, tiger! Best wishes!
2006-06-17 21:09:43
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answered by mithril 6
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Are u a shy sort of person??
If not go tell her, there is no other way thn face to face talk. If she just wants to be friends, thn stalk her till she gives in, just kidding, if she wants to be friends u shud remain friends with her.
Its better u dont spoil a wonderful friendship too.
2006-06-18 07:04:10
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answered by Neozerox 3
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just tell her, it isnt really that hard, if she dosnt like you then fine, but if need more time just be her friend, get to know her and stuff. Girls dont really like guys who they dont know. So just be nice, and dont be mean no matter what.
2006-06-18 10:57:25
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answered by Mel 1
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If you play sports, like football or basketball, after she congratulates you kiss her on the cheek. If not, just tell her you like her but make it clear you're not asking for sex.
2006-06-18 09:37:01
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answered by Bookgal 3
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ask her to come with you so you are alone, then just tell her. it is not the best ansew but it is simble anough. don't fear rejection. just do it and you'll feel better. if you delay you get into the "friends cadigory" and you'll hate it for ever
2006-06-18 03:47:15
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answered by theswarm666x 5
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tell her how u feel if you tell her how she makes u feel it will come to u just search deep in side and let the love flow
2006-06-18 03:49:18
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answered by white_wizard 4
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Play it cool...and hard to get. Unfortunately you will find that usaully works with women of all age.
2006-06-18 03:50:34
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answered by melinda 2
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How old are you boy ??? 21.. ok then
Tell her the truth. If she likes you.. good. If not you deserve better.
2006-06-18 03:47:34
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answered by Anonymous
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you should ask her to drink somthg with you if she refuse you let she away and find another girl
2006-06-18 03:47:43
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answered by onur c 1
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write a letter
2006-06-18 09:40:46
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answered by lolabunny 3
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