Take it slow, soft, and gentle, you will have to stay on or around that special spot for quite some time. Also it helps if you go just a tiny bit off center because that spot sometimes gets too tender and it will make her jerk and move away. Ask her to guide you by the movement of her hips or her hands. Some women get very embarrassed having oral sex performed on them and can't let go and end up just giving up. It all takes, time, patients and understanding. Also it helps to be in a very dark room if she is insecure and or embarrassed. Hope I could be of help! Oh, one more hint: A lot of women will be right there, but then the person changes to another spot and the woman losses it ! You can do a lot of other things down there, in the beginning, but when it is time to bring her to orgasm, you must STAY on one spot till the job is done! Good Luck! P.S. I was in the middle of typing you this answer, when you asked the next question, I am a slow typer!
2006-06-17 21:07:55
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answered by ? 5
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Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth and tongue to stimulate the female genitals, especially the clitoris. The term comes from an alternative Latin word for the vulva (cunnus) and from the Latin word for licking (lingere). 70% of women have reported never or seldom achieving orgasm during intercourse[1], and cunnilingus may be a way for women to achieve orgasm with a partner.[citation needed]
As in all human sexual behaviour, the variety of techniques in cunnilingus and individual responses to them are almost endless.[citation needed] As always, communication, experimentation and practice are the best way to learn how to please a particular partner.[citation needed]
The clitoris is the most sensitive part for almost all women, but may be too sensitive to stimulate directly at times, especially in early stages of arousal, and it is often best to begin with more gentle and less focused stimulation of the labia and the whole genital area.
Tongue tip, blade or underside can be used, as can the nose, lips and teeth (with caution). Movements can be slow or fast, regular or erratic, firm or soft, as the moment requires.
The tongue can be inserted into the vagina, either stiffened or moving. Humming to cause vibration while performing cunnilingus is often considered to be especially arousing, with certain pitches, rhythms or tunes thought to be particularly effective by different people.
Cunnilingus is easily accompanied by the insertion of finger[s] or a sex toy into the vagina, which allows for the simultaneous stimulation of the g-spot, which many women find produces very intense sensations. Many other activities can accompany cunnilingus to enhance overall pleasure, of course, limited only by preference, physics, anatomy and multitasking ability.
A popular slang term for cunnilingus is "eating out," which is a misnomer because nothing is "consumed," except perhaps bodily fluids if protection is not used. Cunnilingus can also be refered as a "Poon-job," a slang term and a cunnilingus variant of "********" (see the section of Fellatio above), where "poon" is short for punani. Additionally, in homosexual culture a common slang term used is "giving lip" or "lip service."
2006-06-17 21:12:38
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answered by Anonymous
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take it slow dont rush into it..the best spot to stay on wud be her clitoris..or get creative with it use ice, food or even a hot drink...rite b4 u go down on her drink something hot and shell feel the warm sensation in your mouth...good luck
2006-06-18 09:45:15
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answered by orange_crush_05 6
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e-mailed a bit to you
don't have any person exspirance but talk a lot to a lot of people about such things ...and they KNOW what there doing...
hehe XD
best adice is don't be afraid to take your time
2006-06-17 21:14:41
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answered by CrazyCat 5
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do the VVVVV sounds while you doit
2006-06-18 14:56:20
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answered by U 3
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