Why do i feel so strange?

Question

I'm 16.I am feeling strange in all matters from last thursday onwards.It was on that day,my new class started in 11th standard. I feel everyone including my old friends r talking to me by keeping a big distance.The things that r happening r also making me irritated.On that first day itself the principal shouted at me in front of my mom 4 wearing a jewel which was not allowed in the school.On the second day,as it was a rainy day the floor was wet and i slipped and fell down in front of my friends.Not only in the school, but in my house also I breaks up with everyone 4 simple matters.And in my church I am an active member,but today when i went to church and after the mass i talked to others they r talking to me like teasing me. This is the same in my tution class.Can somebody advise me why all these r happening together?Can somebody tell something to consold me as a very best friend?I am really sad.

Answer 1

Shiot happens yo pick yosef ups an keeps a goin...

Answer 2

We all have things like those things that happen to us, i am just sorry u had it all happen to u within the same short time! i don't think people r talking about u or making fun of u, i think they just don't realize those things r really stacking up on ur shoulders cuz some ppl don't think those things are a big deal. but they are a big deal to u and others need to realize that! such as what i've realized from being in the real world (and i was a high school gradute just about 4 yrs ago, so i remember all those things still) is in the so called "real world" adults have bills, family issues, career problems, broken relationships, money problems etc. and they just dont remember or understand how the things that have happened to u are a big problem in ur life.
so even tho they might not think about it the same way, remind them that u r serrious and if they laugh don't b afraid to become a little defensive until they get it. if u never say anything to people about how u feel they will never know and they might treat others the same who also won't stand up for themselves.
Other than all that i'm sending u a big HUG!!! and i hope next week has many joys that fill u with happiness.

Answer 3

When I'm going through strange times it helps me to see the humor in it. When I can find things to laugh at, especially about myself, I lighten up...and usually things lighten up around me accordingly.

I also try to look at myself objectively -- from the outside looking in. Sometimes there are things inside that aren't conscious that are trying to surface. Maybe there's something in your life you need to see -- or iron out. Maybe you've outgrown your friends or need to move on from something. Just a few things to think about!

Taking a long walk in nature with my dogs helps me work things out too. I have long conversations with God and ask to be filled with Light so that any unconscious stuff can be seen. Strange times always pass -- and always come back around again too. Feel your sadness and then let it go...then focus on light and love and the gratitude in your heart for your life.... and you'll be fine!

Blessings

Answer 4

im going though stuff like i stoped drinking and smoking and other stuff and my friends are mad at me for ouiting and my girlfriend broke up with me im only 17 myself ill be 18 in sep but all my friends are mad at mebecause i quit doing drugs and started going to church i now live with my cousin and 70 miles from where i used to live because my parents kicked me out but going to church helps its been helping me i start 12th grade in sep at a new school

Answer 5

Its ok your just going through a bad time things will shape up just be yourself. If ur friends are keeping a distance then probably they are not ur friends. Dont feel bad!!

Answer 6

don't feel bad for anything. just face it.u don't change ur self for others.one fine day they'll realise n come back to u.good luck.

Answer 7

welcome to the real world