and i am kinda short for my weight thtas how i will say it lol please just truthfull comments no rude ones thanks
2006-06-17 20:23:53 · 14 answers · asked by crazyforcoke34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Shoot, your not crazy at all! You deserve a life, and trust me you will have no problem dating when your short for your weight.. trust me!!
When I sperated from my husband for 10 months, I had NO problem, I was dating all the time.. Met them online even..
I don't know where you live but on yahoo groups, do a search for BBW groups, there are several here and they have nights out. And married and single people attend them, plus they are in your own area as well.. ANd its a group thing..
I went with my friend once, not to pick up cus i am married, but just for fun, there was a lot of peole, but not to many.. and all very nice.
Go have some fun!!!!!
2006-06-17 20:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know, people always say how difficult it is to date when you have children, BUT, i believe the opposite... having those grand li'l folks around help you better scan out the duds and players, you want someone that is good, kind, sincere, and caring to be apart of your life, because you wouldnt dare allow any less for your kiddos. you tend to be more cautious of how things are done on the dating scene, perhaps taking more time to reach the upmost of commitments, when to introduce the kids to the lucky fellow, and are probably more at ease with yourself, because being a mom requires such dedication, determination, and confidence. just be careful to not get too wrapped up too soon, to avoiding getting hurt, because that will affect those tiny hearts as well, but, it's not crazy at all. it's healthy. it's got nothing to do with being helpless or dependant, but everything to do with happiness and unity. by setting out to do this for yourself, you will be teaching your babies a very important lesson of life, love and personal satisfaction. you are an adult, you have no one to impress or please other than yourself, and of course loving and caring for the kids. when the time comes to meet the kiddos, you will have an even better image of how great this guy is, by how awesome he reacts to the whole family. (i have 4 children, 2 of which are from a previous relationship, and it works, it really does!!) good luck, not that you'll need it... it will happen, just wait and see!!
2006-06-18 03:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you ain't crazy for dating again just because you have 3 kids. I too have 3 kids, you just have to find a man that will accept you and your children. He must understand first off you come with a package. And usually theres a lot of guys out there looking for a woman who has kids b/c they adore them. Good luck and I hope you find that special someone.
2006-06-18 03:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not crazy at all!!! You sound like my mom she has 3 kids and is short for her weight too.
My mom dated again and was very successful. She is now happily remarried and doing great!!
2006-06-18 04:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong for a mother of 3 kids to try and date again.
If you are faithful to your partner ,go ahed and explore.
Remeber , other side of the grass is always green.
Live your life, with what you have,
no need to look for more.
Judgement will be focused on,
what you’ve lived it for.
2006-06-18 03:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with going out there and dating. That's a cute phrase, you're short for your weight :) I'm going to have to remember that!!!
Just because you have three children doesn't mean you aren't entitle to have a life, too!
2006-06-18 03:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you wanting to date! Just because you have kids doesn't mean anything. Everyone needs some companionship in their life, and there is nothing wrong with you wanting to date and have some fun.
2006-06-18 03:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not crazy at all. Date. Live. Enjoy life. And above all, be the kind of person you want your children to grow up and be.
2006-06-18 03:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are human,huh? Are we all suppose to be Barbie&Ken?You must be careful about meeting for coffee /that is the best way to meet /never bring them around your children unless you have set a wedding date....Lots of luck/been/ther,done that
2006-06-18 03:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U not crazy. U have needs like everyone else, and I'm sure you are a wonderful mom.
2006-06-18 03:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Divalicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋