ok i have a question and i need some help please!!!!!!!!?

Question

ok im 13 ive never had a bf and im 1 of the mor popular girls @ school im not 1 of the preps or the hottest girl in school or anything but i hang out with some of them and i talk 2 guys alot i have alot of friends that r guys but watever i do 2 flaunt my stuff 2 a guy i like they just turn the other way like im off limites or something and i realy want a bf how do i get the attention of a guy and get him 2 ask me out?? please help mw if u can

but all my firends have b/f and always want to do double dates and stuff and i cant cause i dont have a b/f and i dont have any 1 2 dance with @ dances and i have these dreames about making out with guys and i want them 2 come true and it just makes me want a bf more when my friends talk about there dates and stuff like that

Answer 1

OK I can't really help you but I know most people will say just be yourself. Trust ,me that's what I've been told multiple times. And I'm 20 and never had a G/f but want one. So if you want you can help me if you know what I can do to get a girlfriend. Feel free to email me and ask questions and I will tell you what I can my email is on my main page.

Answer 2

It could be a number of things...First off if you are coming off too desperate then it is going to turn off guys.Guys like girls that are independent and dont act as if they need a man.Also..your only 13...for all you know the guys you are "flaunting"yourself to are far too immature to even appreciate it.You dont realize it now, cuz i know i didnt,but 13 really is VERY young.You have your whole life to think about attracting guys and having boyfriends.Right now you should focus on being a kid..cuz you only get one very small period in your life to do that.Once boys are a part of your life more and more drama will come your way.Hang out with your friends,have fun,be safe, and let whatever is meant to be in your future happen in due time.Hope i helped :)

Answer 3

First things first...do NOT e-mail the 20 year old that answered your question. .
Maybe you are either so pretty that the boys are insecure and scared to ask you out..or maybe you are to needy. Pick 2 of your closest friends. The ones that always tell you the truth and ask them what thay think the problem is. They are with you everyday and know how you act.
Once again...do NOT e-mail the 20 year old. DO NOT give out your number, and don't call those that give you theirs...ok?

Answer 4

You seem a little too stressed out about this. Just take a deep breath and be yourself. Try to show interest and flirt. Us guys are very thorough and we make sure that a girl is sending signals before we ask them out. Try to be as blunt and obvious as possible and don't be shy. good luck

PS I'm a 13 year old guy and understand what you are going through

Answer 5

Hi you should be confident and just ask a guy you like out on a date, it's as simple as that, however regardless of what you read all guys do respond well when you put a little effort in and look good make up nice clothes that sort of thing, be carfull of guys who say they will be ur friend if you give them head, or want to feel u up they only want to ****, good luck

Answer 6

For Christ's sake... your only 13 years old! You've barely graduated from your Barbie Doll, and you're thinking about dating boys! It's crazy! Enjoy being a child, it last so little time! You'll have plenty of time to have a boyfriend and experience how that feels, but trust me, guys who go out with extremely young girls, like yourself, are only after one thing... and it's because that they can't get "it" in their own age group that they look for some action in young naive submissive impressionable girls (like yourself) who think that they are God's gift to women. Seriously, by putting yourself in that adult situation, a place that really isn't that understood by a lot of teenagers, you are going to get hurt, used and confused. I would wait until you are older and mature enough to deal with this kind of situation...

And if you're thinking "Oh, what do you know?" take it from someone who knows. I have seen so many of my friend's lives been stuffed up by this kind of ****. So don't rush it. If you rush everything now... What is there left for you to enjoy and experience for the first time in your elder teens?

Answer 7

Guys tend to be sheep at that age, they go with the flock. Now, it seems as though you're chasing them. You truly don't need a bf at this age, but I can understand the young urge of wanting to have one.

Typically guys want what they can't have. If you ignore them, concentrate on your work, and/or pay them little to no attention, then they will come, eventually.

p.s. don't worry, soon you'll have too man men to count

Answer 8

let ur friends do all the work :)
tell them to tell all the cute guys they know a girl who is hot and single. I will be 13 and am in the same situation as u !! i am going to tell a guy i like him (i think he like's me too!!)
tell a guy u have a crush on u like him !! or go with the friends thing !

Answer 9

Ask a guy out to go on a double date with your you and your friends. If you like him, keep asking him. If he says no, say OK and go and ask someone else. You're playing the field!

Answer 10

ur 13 so act like ur 13. Guys dont like young girls tryin 2 b something they're not