what are the causes of broken marreiges?

Question

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Answer 1

I seriously do not think there is a blame; for a broken marriage. It takes two to fight very hard to make a relationship work; but only "one" to break it.

One might want to make a go of it; if the other does not? It is a no-go. A marriage is a coming togeather of two people; they cannot always agree, they can "disagree" as long as they find a mutuale understanding or a compromise. A marriage is not about sex, money, or kids. It's how you feel about one another. CAN YOU WAKE UP; TOMORROW? WITHOUT HIM/HER? DO YOU WANT TO WAKE UP TOMORROW WITHOUT HIM/HER?

HOW? Are you going to feel? without your other?Better? Worse? Alive? Dreadful? All of these things come into play. It's not for the children; "GOD FORBID" so your children should always hear you argue & fight? NOT!

You live first off for yourself. Your babies given a good up bringing will be OK. Do you want to be 50/60/65 yrs old? and ask yourself? Where did my life go?

OF COURSE NOT!!!

I'm sorry; been there; did that; hated it.

Answer 2

To keep the passion in marriage hot and alive each party must work at it. Taking each other forgranted is a foundational flaw. Selfishness comes in and everything else falls apart. Instead of our money and us agreeing on the priorities for spending it becomes my money and I can do what I want with it. Lines of communication gets cut and misunderstanding becomes the norm. Women are not built like men emotionally, psychologically, physically etc. It stands to reason that if they must see eye to eye they must make efforts to understand and be understood. If a woman can respect her husband and the husband can learn to cherish his wife divorce wouldnot be an issue. In being assertive one can ride rough shod on the other. More importantly the background of each partner plays a big role in their ability to gel with one another. Constant reference to how 'we do' at home can fraustrating. Failure to recognize that the new unit is seperate and distinct either emotionally, physically, can lead to divorce. Sex is a good therapy. but the woman gives of herself as a natural flow of affection from within, the man apetite for sex is just that, an apetite. He doesnot have to flow from anywhere. He sees, he pays attention. So 'getting enough' becomes a problem when the signals for it become crossed. Raising the children is another sore spot. Children can effectively play partners against each other to avoid discipline. Playing into their hands can create conflict. Ignoring the signs of decay results in lethagy and the feeling of opting out. Late nights,
being a workaholic, drinking, lack of family outings...every chore that constantly seperates the couple for long periods of time..these are warning signs. Refusal to seek counsel and willingness to change....so much more. Good luck

Answer 3

expectations and too much closeness between the two are the main cause of broken marriages.when an individual fails to brethe freely in a relationship ,he starts looking for braking chain.

Answer 4

Lack of trust
Insecurity of one or both people
Jealous
MONEY (a big one)
Children (the change and shift in focus away from the spouse)
Low libido
etc...

Answer 5

Lack of communication leading to misunderstanding;
Lack of trust leading to arguments;
Lack of spending time together leading to losing touch with each other;
Lack of sex leading to dissatisfaction with meeting personal needs/desires;
Lack of money leading to losing faith in the family provider;
Lack of common interests leading to insufficient bondage (nothing to talk about or share together);
Lack of respect leading to wife battering or abuse;
And finally DIVORCE

Answer 6

FIRST ANSWER=Lack of communication
LAST ANSWER=Lack of respect to each other

Answer 7

money issues are the biggest reasons

Answer 8

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