I'll explain in a few minutes about why i ask this question. maybe in 30 min. So check back. First i just want to know the initial reaction.
2006-06-17 19:01:38 · 20 answers · asked by It's just me!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay let me explain... give me a few.
2006-06-17 19:41:11 · update #1
Okay first of all, Thank You for all the honest answers.
i'll be honest..........I've been ashamed about myself because "I am that person".
I figured "slut" "whore" "stupid b*tch" would be an answer, but i'm just human. I was 17 and stupid as can be when I had my first child. I was young, stubborn and never listend to my parents . Since that time I went to school, and tried to lead myself to a good future.
I met a nice man 7 years later and thought I had a great relationship. We got Married Oct, 2, 2001. We had our son on July 30 2002. 1 day before mine. We moved to Alaska because of his job opportunity. I was happy at first but he became controlling over money. He started when I would ask to use our bank card @ Wal-Mart to get our needs(food,hygiene,baby needs, for our family. He would get greedy with "his money". I started to feel helpless. I was expected to stay home raising the baby, while my husband would work making the money and not letting me have any with out question.
2006-06-17 20:04:51 · update #2
wait! "please" i'm still typing........
2006-06-17 20:05:34 · update #3
Anyway, he would'nt let me have money without question. i mean i had tampons, deorderent, and other feminin, products to get. But he always needed to aprove everything. It made me feel less of a "Wife" and more like a "daughter". I felt (in my heart) it was'nt right, so I moved back to New Mexico. Let me add.....He said "You can't leave me with our son. I can keep him here in Alaska where you can't take him. "It scared me!"
We divorced 3 years later. (2004)
Then I started to spend more time with a friend I met in Pharmacy Tech. school. We always had a nice time together. I met her family also. They are very good people. Well I stayed at her house one day. I was off to work the next morning(30 miles away) when my dad's truck broke down. Nobody I mean "Nobody" of about 7 vehicles on a residential road stoped to help. So here came a man in his 4by4 4150 Ford truck willing to help. I'll admit he did'nt attract me by apearance, but the way he helped me, I started to think...
2006-06-17 20:33:30 · update #4
I thought...... WOW!
What a nice person!
We started to hang out as friends. Then it developed into a relationship of happieness. "I thought". He would tell me the sweetest things. and the rest is history "if you read some questions i asked about him". I've got to admit, I was there for him. I did what some people would'nt do for thier man (get them out of trouble). I did it because of Love! I never cheated on anyone, and never will.
I just don't know what the h*ll Is going wrong with me!
All I know is that I'll be there for my boys..... no matter what happens. I'm not going to judge anyones answers because I asked for "it" (question). Thanks for your honesty, Like i said in my blog......."I like honest feed back to see how i treat others."
It just makes me realize how peoplr think of me. So I learn to be a better person.
Take care!
& God bless!
Sorry about the misspelled and non-uderstadabe words...I'm just tired. :o)
2006-06-17 20:50:12 · update #5
Man this line is long... have you rode this ride before?
LOL. Well there can't be anything wrong with it... but it all depends on the age of the kids how close they are together and how many guys she's been with since then and how many was she having an affair with at the time seeing other guys. I know I might be confusing but it all depends.
2006-06-17 19:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would say a damn Jerry Springer episode but you can't cry over spilled milk so leave the men alone and focus on your children growing up having a happy and healthy relationship with both parents, and get yourself together! Go to school get an education and don't let what anyone else says slow you down. Be a woman in control of your destiny and don not repeat past mistakes!. oh and going to confession wouldn't hurt either!
2006-06-18 03:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by amber m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, on first thought I would say she is not one to have long lasting relationships. On second thought it would be also that she may want to consider birth control options.
2006-06-18 02:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time someone uses the phrase "baby's daddys" a red flag for HUGE DRAMA goes up.
2006-06-18 02:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by apropos2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think that this woman has made some bad choices in her past and then try to get to know her if she's interesting.
2006-06-18 02:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that any female has a baby with more then 1 or 2 men she is a tramp
2006-06-18 02:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first though was Bizzy Bone
though he has 5 kids with all different women
2006-06-24 21:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has made a few mistakes (like forgeting the condom) but she is probably a nice person
2006-06-18 02:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by the darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, u a hoe. Thats my first reaction. LOL. Or, i cant talk 2 u if they crazy. LOL.
2006-06-18 02:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor dear , she`s being used and abused!
2006-06-18 02:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋