2006-06-17 18:15:45 · 13 answers · asked by mustbekiddin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Check up both your comfort levels-financially, emotionally, and physically.
I'd take the option that would suit both of us. If it's about equal in both cases, then I'd chivalrously offer to move to my spouses city (I did that), for I am sure that if my partner is comfortable, she'll help me be comfortable too. (I am not a male chauvinist or a wimp, just a husband who love and cares for his wife)
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2006-06-17 21:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Im in that same situation. He's in Australia, im in America. First I was going to move there, but the idea of being away from my family wouldn't let me. He's in the same boat. We still cant decide. It really depends on who has a more stable job. Because who ever moves will have about a 2 year time frame where finding work may be difficult if you are applying for a Green Card or do not have a work Visa.
Good luck, I wish I knew the answer myself or could afford to spend 6 months a year in each country.
2006-06-17 18:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by southrntrnzplnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my spouce is American and came here to be with me. Why? I have a job with benefits that I would lose, plus I have children from a previous relationship and there's custody visitation issues. If he wanted to be with me, it had to be here. If there's no issues like that, consider things that are important to you: how is health care in both countries? Do you have to sell your soul to see a doctor? (lol, just joking) How is the crime rate? The political situation? The inflation rate? Which one is better in terms of jobs and pay, and stuff like maternity leave? In Canada we have paid maternity leave for a year, plus no cost to visit doctors so if either was an issue I wouldn't even consider the US, for example.
2006-06-17 18:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should have decided before marrying!
2006-06-17 18:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by T2Step 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe compromise and both of yous move to a place in the middle from where u and he lives.I dunno-tough.I actually may be in the same position too.Good luck!
2006-06-17 18:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think before marriage you should agree on that matter, the decision should be taken according to :
- Employment.
- Cost of living.
- Education for children.
- Safety.
2006-06-17 18:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by egymah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what country either one of you are from, living in the USA is a better choice!
2006-06-17 18:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first are you planning to have kids?if so were is the best place to raise them, you must remember that a childs enviorment has a big impact what kind of person they are when they grow up,if no children thentoss a coin
2006-06-17 18:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a major issue that should've been worked out before marriage! Good luck with that...
2006-06-17 18:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by jengirl9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, I even have under no circumstances been in this concern so i do no longer comprehend for particular how i could act. even however, interior the hypothetical, i could flow the criminal direction and be particular i did no longer threat being deported back to the 'insufferable' concern.
2016-10-31 01:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋