I need some advice....?

Question

you see, i talk to girls a lot. I really dont think im a shy person at all. i talk to a bunch of girls, and i really dont think im weird or a jerk or a loser or anything like that. but, for some reason, no girls ever like me "like that" i'm 16 years old, gonna be a junior in high school, and have only had 1 girlfriend in high school. i know a lot of people will say its ok they'll come.. but i dont think i need to wait any longer... lol and i tell girls i like them quite often... so please can people give me advice... I NEED TO GET A GIRLFRIEND

Answer 1

choose me (If you wish)

Answer 2

OK now I may sound like Dr. Phil but.... what is your reason for getting a girlfriend? Ask yourself that. If it is to get laid then that is not a girlfriend.... you just need to get laid and so you need to ask, How do I get laid? ...soon.....

So what I am hearing is that you would like to have a girlfriend relationship and want to find someone to spend time with and have some fun with. If that is correct read on, otherwise, ask a different question.

OK. Finding a girlfriend/boyfriend (someone to have a relationship with) is like shopping for a special suit that you will wear for a long time. You need to go out and look. you need to figure out what qualities you want in that person. What do you like to do? Skateboard, play video games, photography? Figure that out. Then start doing that and find other people that you can include (several girls) to do that too. Become a friend first... really a friend. Ask them about themselves and find out what they like and maybe try that. There is a start. Network.

Secondly, you really need to do some self evaluation. Are you going for girls that are just so cute that they are out of your league? Are you judging them by looks alone? If you are then they will know it and will brush you off really fast. A girl wants to feel special. That is the secret with women. All women want is to feel that they are unique and special. The only way a man can make her feel this way is to get to know her and pay attention. All women are different in certain degrees. Yes, they like to get flowers and gifts. But what is thier favorite flower. What color? Why? What is that special thing that makes them unique? You need to find out these things about any potential girl.

If you are overweight or sloppy etc then why would a hot chick want you? They say that the cream rises to the top.... if you are only looking to the top and you are not the cream also.... you need to reevaluate at what level you are appoaching.

Go and rent the movie Shallow Hal.... take some lessons from that movie. It is really accurate. Hopefully that is not you.

Always, Always let the girl come on to you first. Be open and caring to many girls. The one will come forward. If you are going around and telling them all that you like them them it is like a crap shoot.... they don't feel special. Women are aggressive if there is something that they want.

When it comes to the kiss.... and this is important...... she will kiss you when she wants to kiss...... you can lean in..... but wait.... and let her make the move. This works.

Answer 3

If you like talking to girls than you should not only start talking to them just to talk! Try asking questions little by little don't rush into things to fast or you'll quickly be rejected just ask questions. And when I mean ask questions just ask small ones like if they're seeing anyone and if there in a relationship just start from there. If your nice and your not a jerk about anything a girl will like you for who you are and how confident you are by just being who you are!

Answer 4

Don't worry about it. You are probably a great guy and girls probably just feel intimidated by you. Keep being nice and friendly and the right girl is sure to come. No girl can resist a confident yet not cocky friendly boy! Good luck!

Answer 5

if ur telling girls u like them quite often then maybe u dont like any of these girls..u just think u do because ur so desperate to have a girlfriend. wait until you really like someone and then go for it.

Answer 6

Just try to ask them if they like yoiu more as a friend. its good that you dont come off as a jerk or a loser or anything. i'm going into 11th grade and only had one boyfriend. there is nothign wrong with that.

Answer 7

Tell a girl she's ugly and not your type she will not be used to this and want to know more about you then .Or treat them like crap and do them bad you it high school so live it up. trust me it will work. Or tell them you will eat there P***Y and make her *** it always work and if you dont eat P***Y you better start

Answer 8

Maybe you are trying too hard to get a girlfriend. before asking a girl to be your girlfriend, maybe you should get to know her. i mean really get to know her, let her get to know you. and maybe you are coming on too strong. no one wants to date someone who acts desperate. but trust me 16 and single is nothing. imagine being 60 and single. that is hard. you at least have alot of youth. the right one will come around. (although you may not want to hear this but) love doesn't like when you go looking for it, it likes to be spontaneous and surprise you. love will come to you when you least expect it.

Answer 9

You don't want to be too friendly. Try to play hard to get, and the complements are great but, girls don't like guys who are freakishly nice. I know because we have lots of guys in our school like that. Just be hard to get and they should come.

Answer 10

well if you talk to them alot but don't forget to talk to the ones you ignore and don't like.
and try harder you should talk to the girls who are shy around you and maybe you might get a bite
so good luck
your friend
blue butterfly

Answer 11

You need to watch "just friends" Your in that zone and when were young girls we would rather keep you as a friend becouse if you were to break up it would be a very nasty break up.