My boyfriend and I were on a 3 week break...we were together before the break for a year and half...sex was great...we had alot of good times in the bedroom or wherever...it's been 4 days since the break ended....the first night he came over and we fooled around but no sex...and the next night we planned on some hot make-up sex...he came over but said we should wait for a while because he wasn't comfortable jumping right back into sex....so how long do you figure it will be before we have sex....keep in mind the only sex he's has been with his hand....and he said he does want me....but wants to wait till timing is better so we don't jump right back to it....any ideas???
2006-06-17 17:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by *~*hunnie*bunnie*~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From one woman to another in my experience with men, I'm 65 now, there's something fishy somewhere. He may have found someone else that he is considering, or has been with. He may have contracted V D. I would ask questions NOW, and If I didn't get the right answers, or he hemmed and hawed around, I'd say "goodbye Charlie", and get on with my life. I'm sure if you like sex as much as you say, there must be plenty of fellas that would love to meet you.
Hope
2006-06-17 21:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is some communication issues going on here. You two need to both talk. Express your feelings about EVERYTHING that has happened from day 1. This is VERY VERY important. Every incident that has made either of you angry, sad, uncomfortable, confused, etc. needs to be brought into the conversation. You need to figure out between the 2 of you why those incidents took place and how they can be prevented in the future. There has to be 100 % honesty and each of you has to be mature enough to hear whatever the truth may be on either side. I don't know what your exact problems have been and what the fights have been over, but to REALLY work things out both partners have to be 100 % honest and bring every single little thing to the table. You'd be amazed at how close your relationship would be IF both of you can handle this type of intimacy and honesty. Its not easy and people are not used to it. That's why so many fights and breakups take place.
2016-05-19 23:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get a clue here! a hand job does not cure the common cold no more than it does an erection!
Are you meaning "break" as in break-up or spring break?
Because if you mean relationship break then you have just had sex with your EX BOYFRIEND.
And I wouldn't expect to be getting any more "great sex" from him any time soon.
And as for "keep in mind the only sex he has had has been with his hand"? A man, ANY man, prefers Pu$$y over a hand job any day!
If this is a "relationship" then there would be no crap about wanting to wait till timing is better. SEX is a very important part of any relationship given you have always been sexually active prior to this "break".
Sorry.................
2006-06-17 18:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why was there a 3 week break? Without knowing it's tough to say why he wants to wait...maybe he wants to be sure the relationship is going somewhere and it's not based on sex or maybe something happened during the break...i'd want to know what initiated the break first before answering this lol
2006-06-17 17:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all a man doesn;t not have sex so it is important that you impress him sexaully u probaly stoped doing something that you was doing before the break do everything you did be4. EVERYTHING. it can be 1 simple thing that can get him not to have sex w/ him. Maybee show him ur not all sex and u love him in all aspects do different things take him out 2 eat, go on a sexy romantic walk, IMPRESS HIM. OOOOOOO and ask him if theres something wrong if hes upset w/ u he is probaly not going to be that impressed if u get my drift. REMEMBER TO IMPRESS HIM, SHOW HIM U LOVE HIM IN ALL ASPECTS, AND SEE IF THERES ANYTHING WRONG.
Hope this helped you
2006-06-17 18:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Monk_man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about putting your mind on something else aside from sex? seriously, a relationship should not be based on sex alone. how about a nice chat, a picnic on the beach or a good movie? sex has its right time and place. maybe he was not in the mood, or maybe he honestly loves you that he is trying to show you that what a wants from you is just not a good shag. maybe he's a romantic and thinks of sex as an expression of love and not just a primal need? there are still hopeless romantics in the world girl. and maybe you're lucky enough to have landed on one.
2006-06-17 18:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just nervous about it. He doesn't want to make you feel that all he wants out of you is sex. He probably thought about you a lot on your break and wants to treat you even better by not making you feel that he is using you. You should talk to him and ask him why he is acting different. I wish you luck!
2006-06-17 17:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy not wanting sex? Hmmm Sounds kinda fishy to me. Any herpes or something physical going on? You know him, is this a new behavior or has he been like this before? I'd ask him right out, "what's going on with you?"
2006-06-17 17:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by novalee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes already had it. Boys lie and cheat and are selfish. If he only had his hand he would have gave it up already. Dont be stupid. Men are worthless liars.
2006-06-17 17:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by sarra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he comes over answer the door naked !
2006-06-17 17:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋