i know i might come off as a pervert to many, but this is really how most teenage guys feel, and sometimes i dont like it
2006-06-17 17:08:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What's so wrong with masturbation....it's good practice for a healthy sex life. You learn what you like so you can teach someone else what you like when you find Ms. Right. I is so incredible normal for teenage boys to be constantly horny, your getting wacked upside the brain with more hormones than your developing bodies can handle.
2006-06-20 09:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rosemary A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, neither praying, nor taking cold showers will help much.
The cold reality is that procrastination (that is, sitting around and doing nothing) leads to exploring our sexual personas, that is arousing ourselves. This is neither weird nor uncommon. Like you said, most teenage guys are doing the exact same thing.
When you are bored and not doing anything, your innate curiosity will lead you to explore (remember when you were a small kid, once you were home alone, you would go into your parents/siblings rooms to meddle with their things while they were out, or went to places you "were not supposed to" wihin or outside the house?). It is this same childish curiosity the one that will lead teenagers on the course of sexual self-discovery, as well as the discovery of the sex act with the opposite (and in some cases, the same) sex.
It's nothing unnatural, and there is no real reason to feel ashamed or feel as if you should hide from it. If, however, you would wish for religious/ethical/social/personal issues to make the sexual urges relax (they well never completely go away) the one thing you have to do is to keep your mind occupied in some other manner. Sports, a job, homework, any type of manual work, even playing an entertaining computer game or haging out with friends in a social environment - the mall, the movie theater, an arcade - will efficiently keep the urges from being so frequent.
Removing yourself from temptations way, also helps. By this I mean, keep conversations clean, don't go looking for porno mags, and that sort of thing.
A good deterrant is keeping needless TV and Internet usage to a minimum - you should try it.
All the best of luck!
2006-06-18 03:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thank God you don't want to have sex or masturbate! (Way too many guys do) Masturbation will become an addiction so don't do it. Resist your urges. Yeah, dude, so the main thing is to avoid stuff that makes you hony. Avoid porn, dirty conversations, etc. If you start feeling horny anyway, just do your best to get your mind on something else. Find something to do. Keep busy and hopefully your urges will stop.
2006-06-24 19:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by crazyrandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to manhood. Most guys no matter what age are horny all the time and want to have sex. If you think that if you have sex the urges will go away - think again. They will only get worse.
You have to learn how to cope - it's a life long procedure. Distract yourself and keep busy. Do not make any decisions based solely on sex - they never work out.
2006-06-18 00:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by supersmileyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have control over your mind, so when you have those thoughts, think of something else. Make sure you aren't setting yourself up...like looking at the wrong sites, etc.
Cold showers, exercise, keeping busy with the right activities and understanding your hormones are just going nuts. Hang in there.
2006-06-18 00:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it! The bible says that you shouldn't have sex before you are married. Trust me, if you just pray about it, God will make a way through and he will take away all of the feelings that you want gone because these feelings are just the devil trying to make you sin.
2006-06-18 00:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by lil missnunu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 thing anythin that makes you horny do not look, touch, or anything else that make you fell that way and go take a cold shower if it happens.
2006-06-18 00:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's part of the age that you must go through. I saw that you mentioned no masterbating; so the next thing would be to have sexual action with someone.
2006-06-18 00:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a cold shower, call ur grandma and go to church and pray that should get ur mind off of it
2006-06-18 03:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to have sex, then do it...but use a condom...or plz try to control your hormones
2006-06-18 00:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by deathmetalgirl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋