She is 14 years old and he is 16 turning 17 years old. He has a baby with an 18 year old girl and is still doing her. My friend even knows they are still doing it. She believes that her and her boyfriend are in love, but they haven't done it yet just made out. He is so ugly, doing drugs, and has had failed the 8th grade twice.
She hates us so much cause we just keep telling her that he is a loser!!! Last night we were talking to her, telling her that we don't aprove and then he got on the phone and was threating us saying that he would beat the F*** out of us and come over to our house and he did come over. She is still mad at us.
2006-06-17 16:50:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Oh and the parents are fine with it!!!!
Did I mention he wanted to kill me and my other friends???
2006-06-17 16:59:03 · update #1
Well have been in the same situation with my 15 yr old sister so i can understand your concern but the more you push for her to leave him alone the more she will want to stay with him, My sister even went as far as getting pregnant to make us except him now she has a 1 yr old angel and is 7 months pregnant with their second child all because we kept tryin to get her to understand he is worthless...So as much as you may care for your friend allow her to fal on her butt and see what you have been telling her all along with out pressure she will see he is a worthless pile of dung and go on her way...So just stand to the side and if she needs someone to talk to listen but offer no remarks when she asks why you arent giving advice explain to her you have tried but she got upset so you will no longer do it..Good Luck and I hope she opens her eyes before it is to late like my baby sister.
2006-06-17 17:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by shell b 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If ur frend doesnt listen to u and sides with her "loser" guy, u should stop all contact with her. She aint worth ur friendship no matter how much u care abt her.
Mayb later she will realize it and ask for ur forgiveness. Till then pray for her well-being and leave it to fate.
And hello???...there are things called Police and all tht 911 stuff in all countries, why cant u report him. Afterall he threatened u.
2006-06-18 07:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Neozerox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done your duty as a friend, it's time for her to figure things out herself, it may take one or two babies to wake her up, even after that, her life may have already been ruined, sadly, there is nothing you can do, seriously, where are her parents?
2006-06-18 00:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jack Wang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's young and has a lot of hard lessons to learn in life. I hope this lesson is learned quickly, but until she sees for herself that he is truly a "loser" (and she will eventually) there is NOTHING you or anybody can tell her to change her mind. Been there done that, shoulda listened!!
2006-06-17 23:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by adjohnson27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done all you can, and I give you a lot of credit for what you've done. Now it's time to drop it. Don't communicate with her. If he is that bad, he may just hurt you. She has to obviously learn the hard way, I gather she isn't any Einstein.
2006-06-17 23:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend's parents about da boy doing dat dru9 thin9
2006-06-18 03:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hope that she would get it soon that he's a loser! I'd also change my user name; as this will take you on a glory ride to hell!
2006-06-17 23:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell to your friends parents. i am sure they would know how to handle the situation.
2006-06-17 23:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by sexy eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋