Me and my husband are having a rough time. I had a baby 2 1/2 mths. ago and he acts like I am diseased. We either have sex once every 2 weeks, never...Lately it's been once a day, but I am a nympho. I am ok with the once a day. But he's been slacking the past few days. Since I started to gain weight from when I was pregnant...since he's been not wanting anything to do with me less and less! Im at my final straw. How can I make him want me like he used to? How can I make him carry me into the bed room like it used to me...because now I have to beg and talk him into it!! HELP ME....Im getting REALLY depressed! ps: yes I HAVE talked to him about it...numerous times!! NOTHINGS HELPING. Its getting soooo bad he wanted a threesome with this skinny hot chick I know. I AM NOT SKINNY...I am 180lbs! My BFF and her GF are constantly in my room *******...like 5 times a day. I cant help but be jealous!!! HELP MEEEEE PLEASEEEE!!!!
2006-06-17 16:22:43 · 12 answers · asked by queen_of_vampirez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tough question. You are now a mother and not a lover. Will take time, maybe he is stressed with the extra mouthes to feed and knows you need rest. No threesome...will destroy a marriage and family life.
2006-06-17 16:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Oriental Delight 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your 180 lbs and you want him to carry you into the bedroom? OK, so maybe you weren't always 180 lbs and thats the person he wants back. Are you trying to lose weight? Lose the weight, he wants the woman he was attracted to in the beginning. But really, even every other day isn't too bad. If your a nympho get some toys and cut dude some slack.
2006-06-17 16:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you do have problems. I would instead of being upset or down in the dumps. I would start working out with your baby. Well I would first start walking with the baby in the stroller and do this for the next few week. Your husband will start to notice that you have taken an interest in yourself. If he should ask why are you exercising so much. You just tell him that you are doing it for yourself. You might even invite him to go with you and the baby and make it a family affair....
Good Luck to you......
2006-06-17 16:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be many things. Maybe he is stressed about money, or about having a baby around. Maybe your change in appearance is a factor (not trying to be mean, just honest). I know it's hard, but don't get angry with him about it, because that will only push him away more. Be patient, and keep working at getting yourself back in shape after the baby. If for no other reason, it's important for your health.
2006-06-17 16:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by aqsgtriad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum or jump on him and do it to him like you have never done it before. Try new positions, sexy lingerie, toys, or even try watching porno together everyday as a daily treatment to turn him on so he'll turn again into that animal you once knew. Make him want you not that scrawny girl + you to make you feel any better.
2006-06-17 16:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Limited information so it's hard to advise...were you less than 180 lbs. before the pregnancy, when things were good? If so, try your hardest to return to your shape before being pregnant. In the meantime, try meeting him every night when he comes home with his favorite drink in hand. Then, HIT YER KNEES! No man can resist that! Do it every night till you get results (shouldn't be long) Good luck!
2006-06-17 17:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by 4nik8er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 16:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by chappie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are your friends in your room f*cking when there's a 2 month old baby in the house, and all you're worried about is getting it more than once a day......You have a child now, worry about that for a minute.
2006-06-17 16:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by chrystallec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need advice from a sex therapist not a Y!A wannabe!
2006-06-17 16:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try new things that you think he might like
2006-06-17 16:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋