My b/f and I have been together almost 7 months. We love each other and we want to spend the rest of our lives together but I recently found emails from his ex saying she loves him and wants him back etc etc, because he gave me his password. No emails have come since April and he never responded to any of them but.. it kinda hurt and made me insecure. He says I'm the best thing that ever happened to him and I believe that. One more thng.. his car is still in her name because of bad credit. How would you feel about it? Thank you.
2006-06-17 15:48:59 · 18 answers · asked by Cupid 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've read all these and I wish I could vote them ALL as best answers. Thanks for reasurring me!! I know he loves me and you are all absolutely right! *sighs in relief* Thanks!
2006-06-17 16:08:04 · update #1
girl dont worry. he cant help what that girl does, and if he knew that u had access to his email but still didnt delete those particular emails then he obviously isnt trying to hide anything from you. be greatful that he is your man now, dont worry about his ex, and what he did in the past (put his car in her name) isnt something to hold against him bc im sure he didnt know what was in store for him in the future. good luck, and just have faith that u have a good guy and that he wont do u wrong
2006-06-17 15:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by AVDNLHS2 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would feel a little worried but only for a moment. They broke up. He gave you his password. He says he loves you. You've been together for 7 months. He hasn't responded. These are all great reasons why your insecurities should go away. I understand your feelings, you can't help those and Im sure it doesn't bother him too much that you have them, but dont make the mistake of acting on them.. Don't interogate him about that girl... Dont change your behavior, and just try to forget about her ASAP, he did.. He is with you now, he only thinks about her when YOU BRING HER UP so don't!!
2006-06-17 23:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by sososad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you believe your boyfriend when he tells you that you are the best thing that ever happened to him? Obviously your boyfriend does not want to have anything to do with his ex. He gave you his password, so he must have nothing to hide. The way his ex feels about him, has nothing to do with the way he feels about her. Don't let your insecurities ruin your relationship. In the future, maybe you shouldn't read his emails.
2006-06-17 23:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by nikkij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't help what his ex wrote and if he didn't respond, don't worry about it. When the car is paid off, the ex can sell it to him for a few dollars and sign the title over to him. Then you can both move on with your lives. Don't make this a bigger deal than it really is or you'll lose him.
2006-06-17 22:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by NannyMcPhee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, A confident woman is the sexiest being on earth. No matter who you end up with, you'll probably never be the only one he was involved with. So straighten up that spine, walk tall, be confident and neither one of you will be thinking of other people for longer than a few moments from time to time. (That's normal you know, so get a little bit used to it)
2006-06-17 22:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by weeziedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u kidding? just because this girl is a psycho doesnt mean ur husband is too!!!! if he is going to cheat on u. If he wanted to cheat on u he would have done it then, because he knew he could have had her on the spot. I really doubt hes goig to cheat on u, and he sounds like a great guy, so dont worry about it! I wish u all the best in your new and LONG marriage.
2006-06-17 22:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by rjekqlw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't respond to the emails so don't worry about it, relax, take a breath. Trust him, you can't have love without trust. As for the car, if you don't want it in her name put it in yours. It sounds to me like you have a good guy so don't screw it up by not trusting him.
2006-06-17 23:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if he didn't reply and she hasn't sent an email since April, then you have nothing to be insecure about. I wouldn't feel great about his car being in her name but I think you have nothing to worry about. ps congrats on 7 months
2006-06-17 22:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by concrete_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing, your b/f is innocent and if he din't reply to her it's probably because he loves you sweetie. Bad credit is a big issue, you can't clear it so easily, he gave u his password that should show you he has nothing to hide.
2006-06-17 22:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is based all on trust. But if you don't want the car in his ex's name then put it in yours or leave it like that. That is why most couples can't keep a relationship they don't trust each other enough to have one.
2006-06-17 22:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋