ok, me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and a half. we love each other so much. we just got out of high school...we went to 2 diff. schools so we used to only be able to see each other 2 times a week. now that we're out of school, we see each other every day. i seem to get annoyed with him easier now.
is this normal in relationships? to get annoyed after being with someone for so long? i sometimes feel like things are getting old..
does it mean i'm falling out of love? helP!
some things that annoy me: he'll ignore me if something is on tv that's good...i thought i saw him check a girl out today...little stuff like that...but the good stuff outweighs the bad, definitly.
2006-06-17 15:27:49 · 17 answers · asked by vagirl098765 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
simply normal
2006-06-17 15:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Vocal Prowess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationships go through a cycle...in the beginning, you feel a lot of attraction, think about the other person all the time, plan your time together, etc. As time goes on, you become more comfortable and you may take the other person for granted, and, yes, you start to notice all the wierd, little habits he has and they get on your nerves. He is probably feeling the same way about you.
Does it mean you are falling out of love? No, absolutely not...it means now, you are getting to see who you are really in love with and he is seeing the real you...and you still like hanging out together...how wonderful!
True love is sticking it out even though he ignores you when there is something good on TV or pointing out a cute girl for him to check out and laughing about it or cleaning up his barf when he has the flu or him washing the windows on your car so you can see better or him filling up the gas tank for you just because...
Hang in there...it sounds to me like you are on your way to having a wonderful, long-term relationship.
2006-06-17 15:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Elise M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Very Common. Just Gotta Do Your Thing And Let him Do His. It's Great To See Someone You Love But Spreadout Your Time Together.
2006-06-17 15:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by nitehawk8075 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me!
It is better to find out that a guy annoys you now, with more time spent together, than waiting until you are married! If he annoys you now, GET AWAY!
It is not falling out of love, it is a reality check!
2006-06-17 15:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just out of high school. You need to live a little and experience life. Don't commit to a long-term relationship at such a young age. Don't settle!! If you have any doubts, then get out.
2006-06-17 15:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by KR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, it's life, honey.. You are wise. Ya figured out just what it is, man. You get this 'all in love' thing going THEN (it's a proven fact) ya settle down later and see what all the bad **** going down is! (Trust me.. we've all been there.) Split up a while and it'll be back to where it used to be, honey.. K?
2006-06-17 15:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooo young.....but you sound like one of those older couples who find themselves married 30 years (happily), and then whamo the whole rhythm of their relationship changes upon retirement. We get used to a certain comfort range in all things and our relationships aren't any exception.
2006-06-17 15:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMPLETELY NORMAL EVERYONE NEEDS THEIR SPACE AND GUYS ALWAYS HAVE WANDERING EYES GET USED TO THAT, BUT EVERY TIME YOU COME TO A BUMP IN THE ROAD AND YOU STAY STRONG AND GET OVER YOUR HARDSHIPS WHEN ITS GOOD AGAIN YOU FALL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN AND EVERYTIME IT HAPPENS YOUR LOVE IS DEEPER AND STRONGER, NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT EVERY SINGLE PERSONS GOES THROUGH THIS YOUR PARENTS AND MINE AND THE KEY TO LAST IS STICKING BY EACH OTHER AND THEN YOUR LOVE GROWS DEEPER BUT THROUGH OUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP THIS WILL HAPPEN OVEER AND OVER AGAIN ITS JUST LIFE
2006-06-17 15:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by JERSEY MA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal to me.
2006-06-17 15:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by DL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its totally normal, you guys are already and old married couple even though you are young. It might work out for 60 more years, good luck !
2006-06-17 15:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal.You gotta do what you gotta do and he does too and your still together, so something must be right.If you are really worried talk to him about how you feel and if necessary go to counseling.Good luck!
2006-06-17 15:33:29 · answer #11 · answered by mommyof2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋