My husband always thinks i want a bigger----but really i don't and he always is acusing me of wanting his friends, What should i do?
2006-06-17 15:24:37 · 10 answers · asked by whatif 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Prove him right.
2006-06-17 15:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Oriental Delight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what tells him that you desire his friends. Mention that history proves that an accuser usually does, or wants to do, the thing they accuse another of doing. Finally, tell him that if you wanted somebody else, that's where you would be. A divorce is so easily accomplished today, you don't even need to be in the same country! So why would anyone be with someone they don't want to be with
2006-06-17 18:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dave S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him to stop saying that because deep inside you know what you want and what you want is him and not his friends as he claims. But, also ask him why did he ever come up with this idea. What lead him to believe that. Clear it out. Also, tell him if he feels so insecure why he does not leave so he won't have to deal with those wild thoughts going through his head about you.
2006-06-17 15:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have always heard when someone is acusing u of something that u are not guilt the person is acusing is doing something wrong and is feeling guilt of it
2006-06-17 16:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone seems to have great answers, and the ones that mentioned his being the one who's out there are probably right. He's trying to use mind games on you to keep you from picking up on his insecurities, and infidelity. If you focus on yourself from his accusations, then you wouldn't catch him at his actions (probably cheating).
2006-06-17 16:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks you want bigger a d---? he is totally insecure. was he always like this? did you contribute to this at any point and time?
from the way it sounds, i don't think any amount of affirmation will work. this sounds like a deeper issue. he may need some counseling. it sounds like he may have experienced that before and hasn't gotten over it...
2006-06-17 15:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do any thing. Your husband is insecure. I would say he is probably wanting your friends and projecting his feelings onto you; but I don't know him well enough to say that.
2006-06-17 15:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by colgirl241 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be watch him, if he is always accusing you of wanting his friends usually means his is doing something or feeling guilty about something he is doing
2006-06-17 15:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by lyjana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him with it usually the accuser is the one that is cheating
2006-06-17 15:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by she_devil282000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has something to hide . my opion?
2006-06-17 18:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋