2006-06-17 14:51:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
Th dangers of having sex before you physically ready are high hunny. If you have NEVER had a perios that shows that our body is NOT physically ready. My sister became sexually active when she was twelve. Now she can't have kids without taking fertility drugs. Her body wasn't ready. Also, just by you asking the question shows us that your really not ready because your obviously aren't sure. When your not sure, say no. I waited until I was 17 and I am very proud of that. All of friends tell me that they wish they would have waited as long as I did.(I'm 24 now) Don't get yourself into something before your SURE that your ready and odds are that at this point your not. If some guy is pressuring you to have sex...he doesn't really love you. He just wants to get his d**k wet baby. Don't mean to be rude but that's being real. Please...TALK TO YOUR MOM or anyone in your family, or a teacher, school counselor, or anyone before you jump into anything. We all beg you to wait. You will regret it later and we know from experience. But if you insist on getting laid...talk to someone about being safe. 78% of people that have AIDS don't even know it. Be safe, be careful, be sure.
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2006-06-23 08:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by AmberKortni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask about this, I can tell you really do not want to and know it would be a mistake.
you can get pregnant before you get your period, so do not think this means you are safe...
also, to have sex with a man because you want him to accept you is a mistake because he will use you and then go on to another woman. Were you abused sexually in the past that makes you feel you should do this?
Sex is something that you should not rush into because children will come soon after and the rest of your life will be changed and the chance of you making something with your life will become slim after you have a child since the next 15 years will be used to care for and feed the child.
This is why so many women have children and no man, struggling to make ends meet in poverty.
2006-06-17 21:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by CHERYL S3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean that you've NEVER had a period, that means two things. The first is that it could potentially start in seven days for the first time, meaning you've recently ovulated and are fertile. You could potentially get pregnant if you have sex in the days leading up to your first period (and there is no way to know when that will be). Second, menstruation is your body's way of saying you're physically ready for sex. If you've never had a period, your body hasn't developed to the point where it would be safe to get pregnant. You should visit a family planning clinic in your area to find out more information about protecting yourself when you're ready to become sexually active.
2006-06-17 21:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
For one, if you have not had you r period yet, it is likely you are much too young to have sex. If the male you choose to have sex with is older, he could be charged with statutory rape or even child rape, even if you agreed to it because your are likely not of the age of informed consent. Beyond that, you may just be starting to ovulate, and you could get pregnant while you are not at all prepared to raise a child. Wait, you have many years ahead of you
2006-06-17 21:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by SteveA8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you havent started your period that most likely means that your not very old and therefore cannot be that much in love. you are probably just feeling lust for a certain someone and that is fine, but my vote on you having sex right now is definitely NO.
2006-06-17 21:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you havent started your period by age 17 you should see a doctor. If you want to have sex you should still use protection. But think it through, you only use your virginity once...are you sure you want to?
2006-06-17 21:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by nicesinceresweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have not started your period is probably you are not mature yet wait you will know when the time is right remember guys will r e s p e c t you more if you wait don't just give the goods away
2006-06-17 23:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by demetrius n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have a less likely chance of getting pregnant. BUT! i mean come on. if you haven't started yet, don't you think that means that you're not old enough to have sex. common sense here, please.
2006-06-18 10:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, please don't. Just by the question we know your not ready for that. Focus on school and your friends/family. There is no need to open that door of chaos. Guys will be there later...have fun and healthy and safe.
2006-06-17 22:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no!!! You will regret doing it too soon when you're old like me!!! Save it till you're older and more in touch with who you are, even though you think you know now. You will enjoy it more if you wait too!
2006-06-17 21:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋