Well i've really gotten to know him 2nd semester of this year, and we've been friends. And he's been fliriting w/me lately. And I said something that made him might have made me look like im not intersted. But i am, i wasn't to sure so i didn't say anything to him to let him kno im interested. And then our last day of school was june 9th and i was going 2 get his number earlier that day but i didn't. And he checked out of school. So i've been trying 2 gett his number which i did from a friend in which i found was his cousin. And she told him who was going 2 call him later(me) and he said, "Oh Kendra, that's my Buddie!" And i called him the next day/night. He asked me,"What would make u wanna get my number?" I said, I dont know just did. I should have told him l have a crush on him but i didn't want 2 come off 2 strong. Wut should i do wut should i tell him?
2006-06-17 14:48:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
never let a guy know you like him even if you are dying for him it will make him feel superior if he likes you and wants something serious with you he will let you know trust me. thats what happened with me and my b/f i never said anything to him he was the one to ask me out and now we are both in love and planning our marriage. good luck
2006-06-17 14:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by SC323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not come out and tell him you had a crush on him. When he asked why you called you could have said that you would like to be friends and from his actions you got that same impression. Just say that maybe you and him could hang out some time and get to know each other. The fact that you called him gave him an indication that you liked him.
I would play it cool, let him make the next move. If you were meant to be together you will. Things have a way of working out when people are meant for each other.
2006-06-30 17:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him over the phone just say " listen ___________ I really need 2 tell u something private. Can I trust u 2 keep it a secret?"
If he says yes fast or stuttering he likes u so just calm down and say " I like u more then a friend and want 2 know if u do 2 and if so would u like 2 go out wit me sometime.
Don't be nervous tat'll give it away if u haven't told him yet.
2006-06-17 14:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im yung! I think that u should talk 2 him a little more and make sure that he's interested! Once u do that start out by asking slow questions like do u have a girl friend and if he ever thought of u as more than his buddy! The rest should just flow out freely after that!
2006-06-17 14:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by misssims456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to know that boys have thick heads, they need things spelled out clearly. girls can leave hints and the other girls catch on.
When he asked you why you wanted to call him, say something like. "aaaaaaaaaah, I have a bit of a crush on you." Say it in a playful way. Eventually you are going to have to let him know. I might not be in to looking for a girlfriend but you won't know until you try. As you get older you will have more confience and this would lf men and women won't be so difficult.
oh, and be prepared to be rejected. If you don't deal with rejection then you will not have the confidence to let your feelings be known again, then you will be stuck forever. Have courage and it if doesn't happy, then try try again.....there are many guys out ther
2006-06-30 21:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already did good by telling him that you have a crush on him. If you talk to him again, just ask him if he would like to get together with you to do something.
Act quick, he may be shy and was planning to ask you out, but never got a chance. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to see him again.
2006-06-17 14:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by dis_smirf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tell him is to just tell him otherwise you will never tell him and you will be all nervous around him if you dont hey he might like you I have done it millions of times in person they all ended up to like me take a chance for a good or come 50 50 chance he will either like you or not
2006-06-19 07:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by liz n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha hi well ur problem is somewhat like mine atleast he knos that u like him haha i just agree with what others said just get to kno him better and when he starts to share his feelings with u maybe he trusts u or thinks ur the best friend to share feelings with or maybe go out with cause u under stand him more than just like him.. do u get what i mean????? sorry if this confusses u okay
2006-06-17 16:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really should tell him before it's too late! if at the end u found out he loves u before and he has a gf already u'll be mad at urself for the rest of the time. (until u have the feeling for another guy)
2006-06-29 05:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, he knows you like him, he asked you strait out! He wanted to hear YOU say it! Just tell him, ' I think you are pretty cool!' 'Wanna rent a movie or something?'
GO GET HIM GIRL! good luck!
2006-07-01 13:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋