she also takes pictures at functions with my husband . is this normal for ex wives? i wouldn't want a picture of my ex husband. why is she doing this?
2006-06-17 14:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by lablady33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe this is just a mother trying to do something for her daughter, she knows that she's probably failed her in other things, the very fact that she separated must be traumatic for the kid?
Put yourself in her place and think?
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2006-06-17 22:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
the reason why you are jelous is because you have love for your husband, you love him alot so if hes with another women ofcourse you wil get jelous. any women who is deep in love with another guy will be jelous if another women takes her place which is happening to you.
maybe the reason she is doing this might be because she is still not over your husband, she still likes him and still wants him even though he is married.
in my opinion,
she should give him a break, i mean come on he is married and has a life of his own, has a wife of his own so is she butting into his business? women like that just want what they desire and they know how to do that in their own way.
she should jut get over him for real.
and its ok if you get jelous because if i were in your place i would be jelous too since "he's ma man" now.
BUT, since she was his wife before and has a daughter that is hers and your husbands, and they got a divorce, then she has some right to talk about that because it their daughter and its important. thats alright but taking pictures i wil say its kind of wierd because i thought she was his ex-wife,, why in the world wil she want to remeber him with his pictures when they broke up? on the other hand, she might just take pictures for a memory, she has a daughter and hes that daughter's real blood father, so i think its ok.
and if she calls toooo much then theres something fishy............
what i mean by toooo much is like 3-6 calls a day. then you should really talk to your husband
and then theres something
real fishy.................
2006-06-17 14:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being jealous is only normal. Ask him to talk to her. Some people feel just because you have a child together they have the right to constantly keep in contact with that childs parent. Some phone calls can be unnecessary. If its not an emergency or something that can wait he needs to let her know that it is not okay to constantly contact him. She may be using the child as an excuse to communicate with him or to see him. She needs to get a life and stop interferring with his new life he is trying to build with you. She knows what buttons to push to get his attention and as long as he will allow it she will continue.
2006-06-17 14:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by dynsapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know that is part of them having a child together. I know it can make u jealous and piss u off. If u love him, try not to let her get in the way of your relationship with your man. Does your man listen to every word she has to say, and when she talks to him is it something important about the child? I used to be in the same ole situation, it can be very hard to dill with, and even tear a relationship apart. Good Luck.
2006-06-17 14:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by angelalovin2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just like the control. My friend has this problem and it is seems like the ex just wants to have it all...she doesnt want her ex back she just wants to be number 1 all the way around. I would call her a b#tch. You cant have it all.
2006-06-17 15:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by nicesinceresweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I've dealt with this too, and it was his being able to call his ex whenever he wanted to or vise verse. Only I couldn't or better not ever get caught talking to my ex under any circumstance. Yea, she still wants him, and he knows it. He has an easy lay whenever he wants with their child as an excuse. There are proper means for them to be in touch regarding their child, but it's up to you to see that they are set up for your comfort level. If he argues the point, look out.
2006-06-17 16:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just insecure you should have never married a man with a child if you didn't want to deal with a mom.
2006-06-17 14:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Addie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't over him. In any case, they do have a child together, so you have to deal with that. If your husband wanted her, he'd be with her. Good luck.
2006-06-17 14:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants him back....
2006-06-17 14:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by SineB_NaD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋