as you all know my boyfriend is at juvi for 6 months .............and i think this is a good time to get to know his family but most importantly his mom you see what i want to do is call to his house and talk with his mom so i can see how are thing when my bf call to his and that way i can ask her is he ok stuff like that. but i just dont knwo how to approach her i dont know what to say , where should i start what should i say. is this a good idea? is it ncessary? i need to know what to do step by step cuase i am very nervous tell me what to do please
2006-06-17 14:24:12 · 5 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I need to know step by step i am nervous
2006-06-17 16:02:30 · update #1
You should call and politely introduce yourself. Just remember to be extremely respectful; perhaps you could say, "Good Evening, Mrs. so-and-so, this is Danielle. I have been dating your son for a while. How are you doing?"
Wait for her to respond, and elaborate on what she says. If she only says "OK" or something like that, you could say, "What have you been up to lately? Anything interesting?" After she makes some small talk, then you can ask about your boyfriend. You could say, "If it is alright with you, I'd like to ask how Jim (or whatever your boyfriend's name is) is doing. Have you heard from him in a while?"
Just keep the conversation light and polite, and hopefully she will too. Good luck, Danielle.
2006-06-17 14:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Iamnotarobot (former believer) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you are so attached to a boy who is in Juvenile detention. He obviously has some problems, and you would do better to not be tangled up in a relationship with him. It will only end up in heartache and trouble for you.
If you really want to find out how he is, just call his mom and telll her who you are and you were wondering how he is doing. If she is a kind woman and a good Mom she will be glad to tell you how he is doing, and be glad of any support or encouragemant you can offer.
Try not to be so needy and think really hard about whether this relationship is good for you. At your age you don't need to be so tangled up in relationships, there is plenty of time for that when you get older.
2006-06-17 21:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Betsy Jayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly have no clue my bf mom lives in Peru. just wanted to say nice name, i think that's what I'm gonna name my kid if its a girl.
2006-06-17 22:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by stvssw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is ok just ask her how is everything it shouldnt matter to her calm down beecause to the world u may be one person but to one person u may be the world
2006-06-17 21:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by stephenvenice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her really simple
2006-06-18 04:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋